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murielm99

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3. That happened to my brother when he was eighteen.
Mon Feb 10, 2014, 01:32 AM
Feb 2014

A drunk was going the wrong way down a four-lane highway, withouts lights, at 8:30 p.m. He hit my brother head-on. My brother's best friend died. My brother, the driver, spent about three weeks in a coma and two years in rehab. He is sixty-two now, and has suffered lasting effects from the accident.

What happened to the driver? Nothing, basically. He had a bit of damage to the front of his pickup, and he broke a couple of bones in one of his feet. BTW, he was driving with no insurance and a suspended driver's license, because he had other drunk driving tickets. Later, my brother met a middle-aged woman who had had a similar accident with the same drunk. She was in a wheelchair.

Our state did not have implied consent laws at that time. The drunk tried to sue the hospital that took a test measuring his blood alcohol "without his knowledge or consent." The orthopedic doctor who helped my brother had banded together with other doctors, who had a war chest to fight such suits. Eventually, the law was changed. My brother was one of the people who wrote a letter that was read into the state record when the law was changed. It helped him feel that his friend's death had not been entirely for nothing.

I have never been able to take even one drink and get behind the wheel. Never, not under any circumstances.

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Drunk driving laws are just not hard enough!! busterbrown Feb 2014 #1
They just get plastered and drive without the license Warpy Feb 2014 #7
I was at my favorite bar not too long ago. Initech Feb 2014 #8
I think they're pretty harsh, myself ... brett_jv Feb 2014 #30
The laws are harsh in theory Blue_Tires Feb 2014 #33
It depends on jurisdiction. cab67 Feb 2014 #37
if this woman gets 10 yrs., that's a slap on the wrist wordpix Feb 2014 #45
I don’t think there is much of a comparison between those driving under the influence and those just busterbrown Feb 2014 #46
Depends on 'how drunk' and 'how fast' we're talking about ... brett_jv Feb 2014 #55
License suspensions simply don't work. 1st offense mandatory jailtimes and confiscation does. Xithras Feb 2014 #38
Problem is that when you're really drunk you don't care about the consequences. Kablooie Feb 2014 #44
I wonder what her passengers were saying to her? Scairp Feb 2014 #51
Never spend ccsar Feb 2014 #2
That happened to my brother when he was eighteen. murielm99 Feb 2014 #3
Yep, that's my post-midnight rule. MissB Feb 2014 #29
There were three people in her car and nobody noticed she was going the wrong way? jsr Feb 2014 #4
It's quite possible they knew and couldn't do anything. Heywood J Feb 2014 #41
Had this happen to me once. Came close. byronius Feb 2014 #5
That's seriously my hometown, I drive on that freeway every day. Initech Feb 2014 #6
The last real lenient DUI that I remember happened in Simi Valley Politicalboi Feb 2014 #9
When I lived in Virginia NutmegYankee Feb 2014 #10
When you drive the wrong way all of those little street reflectors are RED.... Spitfire of ATJ Feb 2014 #11
Not the only clue, but yep. AtheistCrusader Feb 2014 #12
I'm wondering if this wasn't a suicide attempt. Spitfire of ATJ Feb 2014 #13
Always a possibility. AtheistCrusader Feb 2014 #14
Some people have ZERO empathy. Spitfire of ATJ Feb 2014 #15
........... trusty elf Feb 2014 #23
What's with the palindrome sign on the left? kentauros Feb 2014 #26
sheer nonsense trusty elf Feb 2014 #27
Proof again that most Tea Party types didn't follow politics,... Spitfire of ATJ Feb 2014 #32
In my experience after attending to people in a large number of wrecks, no. Just lousy drunks. jtuck004 Feb 2014 #16
That was my first thought. Not because of the wrong way, but because of the speed. silvershadow Feb 2014 #17
You probably had something going for you - cab67 Feb 2014 #24
"Who goes that fast when drunk?" Blue_Tires Feb 2014 #34
I once drove behind a drunk on Route 3 in Kingston, MA. Heywood J Feb 2014 #43
With Her Sister & Someone Else In Vehicle? SoCalMusicLover Feb 2014 #54
There's been off and on a rash of people driving the wrong way in Dallas. tammywammy Feb 2014 #49
I know someone who hit a parked steam roller with a Camero at high speed. It moved it 6". Spitfire of ATJ Feb 2014 #50
Will she use the new "afluence excuse" to avoid the penalty of murder? Hulk Feb 2014 #18
this also happened in Tampa FL....very sad steve2470 Feb 2014 #19
any chance she will get life in prison ? JI7 Feb 2014 #20
25-life Scairp Feb 2014 #52
I've never heard of a stoned driver speeding. Scuba Feb 2014 #21
Speed was not the issue - it was going the wrong way. Speed may have made the accident MillennialDem Feb 2014 #31
I wonder if I can avoid being a victim cosmicone Feb 2014 #22
I sure as hell hope that the HappyMe Feb 2014 #25
Alcohol is the Great Killer and Destroyer, sold at your friendly corner store. Fred Sanders Feb 2014 #28
Google can't get those auto-cars out soon enough, as far as I'm concerned. Hosnon Feb 2014 #35
Nothing is idiot-proof...Evolution just forges better idiots and technology is bested... Blue_Tires Feb 2014 #48
Victims bpj62 Feb 2014 #36
"Girls"? alp227 Feb 2014 #42
Girls, bpj62 Feb 2014 #47
Similar incident in Florida a few days ago. Chakab Feb 2014 #39
This just happened in Michigan, also. Crepuscular Feb 2014 #40
SOB deserves life in prison BigDemVoter Feb 2014 #53
They charged her with 6 counts of murder Scairp Feb 2014 #56
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