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5. I can't say I would know either.
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 11:53 PM
Feb 2014

Though, my first husband was in a vegetative state for more than 3 years before he died. It was against my daughter's wishes (and his).

The simple fact that he had a feeding tube, and continued to breath on his own after being taken off the ventilator, sealed the deal. Even the doctors had said he would never recover. But that damn feeding tube. His case had to go before an ethics committee. They would not allow the tube to be removed because he would die of starvation. Had he not had the tube already they would have let him starve, however.

The whole thing would have been different, I think, with a child.

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When is the funeral? cosmicone Feb 2014 #1
I don't know 840high Feb 2014 #2
I know what I would do.....say goodbye to my daughter and STOP the insanity... VanillaRhapsody Feb 2014 #3
I can't say I would know either. Control-Z Feb 2014 #5
With the 'Schiavo foundation' involved, I can see/understand the parents being AtheistCrusader Feb 2014 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author Th1onein Feb 2014 #7
I don't put the blame on the parents. They are being exploited by greedy sharks looking for a payday NYC Liberal Feb 2014 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author Th1onein Feb 2014 #9
"Pro-Lifer"? Feral Child Feb 2014 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author Th1onein Feb 2014 #15
Sorry for your loss. Feral Child Feb 2014 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author Th1onein Feb 2014 #19
OK, have it your way. Feral Child Feb 2014 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author Th1onein Feb 2014 #21
Twist it any way you want Feral Child Feb 2014 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author Th1onein Feb 2014 #25
And you are rude and heartless. Psephos Feb 2014 #22
Thank you Feral Child Feb 2014 #24
Not unrequested. bitchkitty Feb 2014 #27
I knew a science challenged comment was coming cosmicone Feb 2014 #10
Fuck it, go full-on cryonics while we're at it NickB79 Feb 2014 #28
Sadly, they have convinced themselves that she's "getting better" ..... Myrina Feb 2014 #18
The ambiguity of the letter makes me mackerel Feb 2014 #6
People are selfish and have no concept of what real life is. Lunabelle Feb 2014 #11
With her being brain dead, she feels no pain. That's a small consolation catbyte Feb 2014 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author Lunabelle Feb 2014 #16
Sounds like she's in major denial. AngryOldDem Feb 2014 #12
The mom says PumpkinAle Feb 2014 #26
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