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Mister Ed

(6,873 posts)
18. "We don't need any more battered womens' shelters!"
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 08:59 PM
Apr 2014

Every time I hear of yet another case like this, I'm reminded of the words of a police officer in Ohio who was quoted in a newspaper article I read about twenty years ago. This was before the days when everything was on the internet, so I can't provide a link. But his words lodged in my mind, and I can quote him so closely that it's almost verbatim.

A grizzled veteran of twenty years of working on battered-women's cases, he declared, "I'm sick and tired of always hearing about how we need more funding to build battered women's shelters. We don't need any more battered women's shelters.

"What we need is shelters for batterers. We need to get those shelters built and staffed, and we need to get the batterers into the shelters.

"Those shelters", he went on, "are commonly known as jails."

Ever since I read those lines, I've wondered to myself: why in the world - why in the world - do we confine the victims of a violent crime, and let the perpetrators roam free?

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Leaving an abuser is the most dangerous time. tammywammy Apr 2014 #1
Mercy shenmue Apr 2014 #2
Why did he have a gun and a restraining order? upaloopa Apr 2014 #3
DV protection order makes him a felon for having a gun in his hand. AtheistCrusader Apr 2014 #8
Under Federal Law, if you have a domestic restraining order, and you have a gun, it is five years happyslug Apr 2014 #17
If he is found guilty, and that appears likely, life w/o parole would suit. nt MADem Apr 2014 #4
+1 million Louisiana1976 May 2014 #28
Where was the good guy with a gun ? What bull . geretogo Apr 2014 #5
Mom was beaten, too, and my little brother and I hid behind the couch. Faygo Kid Apr 2014 #6
Sorry to hear about all that. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #12
I volunteered in a shelter with a secret location. Ilsa Apr 2014 #7
That is why my local is well known, but has tight security. happyslug Apr 2014 #20
Yeah, we had to be very careful with screening Ilsa Apr 2014 #22
Mother Fucking Guns!! SoCalMusicLover Apr 2014 #9
Amen. I am so sick of all this shit! Laurian Apr 2014 #10
You speak the truth! llmart Apr 2014 #13
amen mahannah Apr 2014 #15
Saw an article somewhere about the gun company CEO getting threats... rwsanders Apr 2014 #16
Was he standing his ground? Yeah, ridiculous, but all SYG cases are ridiculous. nt valerief Apr 2014 #11
Why do courts allow violent spouses to get visitation rights or part-time custody? 951-Riverside Apr 2014 #14
"We don't need any more battered womens' shelters!" Mister Ed Apr 2014 #18
Often is it the case of proving beyond a reasonable doubt a crime occurred. happyslug Apr 2014 #21
Thank you for taking the time to write a thorough and thoughtful post. Mister Ed May 2014 #25
Figures... Rider3 May 2014 #27
Poor woman!!! Beacool Apr 2014 #19
really? LynnTTT May 2014 #23
The reality is that the man had a gun. Beacool May 2014 #24
There was a restraining order. christx30 May 2014 #30
Protective Court Order? Rider3 May 2014 #26
Well said. Louisiana1976 May 2014 #29
See my post above. happyslug May 2014 #31
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