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happyslug

(14,779 posts)
20. That is why my local is well known, but has tight security.
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 09:08 PM
Apr 2014

The Police are only minutes away and if any males calls they refuse to tell them who is in the Shelter, including any of the workers. When I first started to work for Legal Aid (which is the group that handled GETTING such protection orders in Pennsylvania) I would call them and then tell the receptionists to have the client or the worker to call me. That lasted about six months, for I have a fairly unique voice, I have been asked if I am from England, Germany, Russia, and various other locations. I have to tell people, no I grew up locally, but since I had a hearing problems between the ages of two and five, my speech is like someone who never heard someone else speaks (i.e. like a deaf person). Since then, every time I call the Shelter, they let me talk right to the client over the phone. I should note, I am the only exception to the general rule, and just because by be just talking they know who I am. Other male Attorneys still have a rough time talking to clients who are living in the Help Center.

It looks more open then it is, It is on a slope between two streets, thus the fence goes around the rear and you can NOT see over the fence from OUTSIDE the shelter:

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http://www.womenshelpcenter.org/

I have been working for Legal Aid in regards to Protection Orders for over 25 years, and I have NEVER been in the Shelter. They bring the clients to my office, or I see them at the Courthouse. There is no need for me to go into the shelter most of the time. With the computerization of such orders, except when they are in my office I have not have to call a client in at least five years. It does come up, custody cases and housing cases are the big issues, but most women only stay less then a month.

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Leaving an abuser is the most dangerous time. tammywammy Apr 2014 #1
Mercy shenmue Apr 2014 #2
Why did he have a gun and a restraining order? upaloopa Apr 2014 #3
DV protection order makes him a felon for having a gun in his hand. AtheistCrusader Apr 2014 #8
Under Federal Law, if you have a domestic restraining order, and you have a gun, it is five years happyslug Apr 2014 #17
If he is found guilty, and that appears likely, life w/o parole would suit. nt MADem Apr 2014 #4
+1 million Louisiana1976 May 2014 #28
Where was the good guy with a gun ? What bull . geretogo Apr 2014 #5
Mom was beaten, too, and my little brother and I hid behind the couch. Faygo Kid Apr 2014 #6
Sorry to hear about all that. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #12
I volunteered in a shelter with a secret location. Ilsa Apr 2014 #7
That is why my local is well known, but has tight security. happyslug Apr 2014 #20
Yeah, we had to be very careful with screening Ilsa Apr 2014 #22
Mother Fucking Guns!! SoCalMusicLover Apr 2014 #9
Amen. I am so sick of all this shit! Laurian Apr 2014 #10
You speak the truth! llmart Apr 2014 #13
amen mahannah Apr 2014 #15
Saw an article somewhere about the gun company CEO getting threats... rwsanders Apr 2014 #16
Was he standing his ground? Yeah, ridiculous, but all SYG cases are ridiculous. nt valerief Apr 2014 #11
Why do courts allow violent spouses to get visitation rights or part-time custody? 951-Riverside Apr 2014 #14
"We don't need any more battered womens' shelters!" Mister Ed Apr 2014 #18
Often is it the case of proving beyond a reasonable doubt a crime occurred. happyslug Apr 2014 #21
Thank you for taking the time to write a thorough and thoughtful post. Mister Ed May 2014 #25
Figures... Rider3 May 2014 #27
Poor woman!!! Beacool Apr 2014 #19
really? LynnTTT May 2014 #23
The reality is that the man had a gun. Beacool May 2014 #24
There was a restraining order. christx30 May 2014 #30
Protective Court Order? Rider3 May 2014 #26
Well said. Louisiana1976 May 2014 #29
See my post above. happyslug May 2014 #31
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