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mntleo2

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45. Sorry I just had to rant I knew why she brought him to WA State ...
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 02:14 PM
Jun 2014

Well the legal system is screwed up for the little guys in this state and most states. This is the fix that we all desperately need. They are all veclept about $millionaires with their inheritances (like relatives of Kasem), but they make sure to make legal stuff hard and expensive for the rest of us. I see this in family and criminal law as well ~ the same crap. You either have to be a $millionaire to get fair court hearings or you suffer with a court system that is over burdened, outdated, expensive even then, and beyond repair.

I am no lawyer, but as an advocate for many and with loved ones who I have supported, the law is undeniably skewed toward the rich in every way. IMO one of the most insidious things they have done in inheritance law is to make this state a "community property" state, meaning that spouses have rights to everything ~including inheritances from a former deceased spouse that they should have no business inheriting all of it if there are kids or other relatives who could have a stake. I can see in some cases this might be a need, don't get me wrong but ...I am sorry to say this but if a man's wife dies who inherited and with whom they spent 50 years accumulating other assets together, then the kids or close relatives should have a stake and they do not.

Now this gets complicated to say what I have because often it is the KIDS who are the elder abusers and they also should be held accountable. This is happening all the time in an elder's home where kids move in and then take over their parent's assets and abuse their parents. APS does not do one thing to protect these vulnerable adults. They only care about institutional abuse, like in a rest home, they will go to the ends of the earth and spare no expense to prove things like that someone left a slippery spot in a rest home's hallway but refuse to even make a phone call to a daughter living 2 minutes away when an old man shivering on a bare couch in his underwear after these people received over 20 calls from the neighbors because of their concern. Something is WRONG there, wouldn't ya think?

But there is little protection for an elder who trusted their kid or new wife and signed over their right to make decisions about how to handle the bills when they can no longer do this. If the kid, spouse or ANYBODY is abusive and exploitative, they should be held accountable but they are not. Because there is little in place for APS to go after these pigs, they do nothing, nada, ziltch and so the abuse goes on and on. Often the elder dies in terrible abandonment, horrible pain and misery without so much as a visit from these ...I want to call them heartless pigs ... but I will instead say these "officials" are enmeshed in an institution that helps them ignore this abuse.

Mrs Kasem most likely moved her husband to this state because she knew she would get away with her neglect and abuse. APS won't do anything to her as long as he stays in his home. People like her even commit outright murder and get away with it because well, the person was old and so smothering to death, dying because they did not get the 'right' medications, and other reasons that could involve outright abuse and neglect that (IMO) are often intentionally 'overlooked'. They are not investigated, it is just thought they died "of natural causes" and then the abuser walks away with all the assets. Done all the time here.

What is this about thinking elders have no feelings, do not matter nor should they have protections? Oh they ARE being used a political footballs by politicians who often talk about 'elder abuse' but "forget" to talk about the many, maybe more predominant ways they are being abused by family? I know talk about family abuse is touchy but they have managed to get sympathy for a kid, so why are their great-grandparents still crying alone and frightened after being locked in their basement? Not so much help for them because well, they are old ... GGRR!!

My (more than) 2 cents

Cat

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His voice will carry on liberal N proud Jun 2014 #1
My favorite... mikeysnot Jun 2014 #2
... progressoid Jun 2014 #3
He was obviously very frustrated about an ongoing problem. Producer should have fixed that issue. RBInMaine Jun 2014 #38
I'll always rember him from Transformers. AngryAmish Jun 2014 #4
never knew the voice actors PatrynXX Jun 2014 #9
me too. Cliffjumper, Bluestreak and Teletraan 1 roguevalley Jun 2014 #34
Keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars nt HomerRamone Jun 2014 #5
American Top 40! hamsterjill Jun 2014 #15
I'm listening to his show on Sirius-XM right now Omaha Steve Jun 2014 #6
I listen to it about every weekend. LeftofObama Jun 2014 #27
that wife of his is in trouble now PatrynXX Jun 2014 #7
Not Sure erpowers Jun 2014 #16
Been there! mntleo2 Jun 2014 #31
Sorry erpowers Jun 2014 #35
Sorry I just had to rant I knew why she brought him to WA State ... mntleo2 Jun 2014 #45
Now checking in at number 82, it is the legendary Casey Kasem ... SkatmanRoth Jun 2014 #8
Niiiiiiiiice one! marble falls Jun 2014 #10
+1.. Historic NY Jun 2014 #13
He has a dedicated channel on the IHeart Radio phone app LTR Jun 2014 #18
nice Botany Jun 2014 #20
Someone once described him as having a 'polyurethane voice'. Aristus Jun 2014 #11
RIP, Shaggy... Tom_Foolery Jun 2014 #12
Zoinks ... Drifter Jun 2014 #24
synonymous with my growing up with music 'Casey's Coast to Coast'... can still hear it all tomm2thumbs Jun 2014 #14
And I can't believe what his family did to him alp227 Jun 2014 #17
I don't know that it was that clear cut. forthemiddle Jun 2014 #25
no, the problem was just his current wife and how she kept every other family and friend away JI7 Jun 2014 #32
RIP Casey, you had a comforting voice, thanks for the Top Forty. Uncle Joe Jun 2014 #19
The voice of my youth playing the soundtrack of my youth. Boomerproud Jun 2014 #21
End of an era, for sure. His suffering is over. Unfortunately the family he left behind will calimary Jun 2014 #22
When I see Jean on the tv news.............. Capt.Rocky300 Jun 2014 #33
let's not forget ... justsomeguy01 Jun 2014 #23
He did an episode on the original Hawaii Five O Hawaii Hiker Jun 2014 #26
As they say in the business undeterred Jun 2014 #28
In light of the familiy difficulties ongoing, a very nice and heartfelt statement from the family. marble falls Jun 2014 #29
My long-distance dedication Alex P Notkeaton Jun 2014 #30
R.I.P. BumRushDaShow Jun 2014 #36
AWESOME iconic radio dj and voice actor, and good humanitarian. RIP Casey. RBInMaine Jun 2014 #37
Sunday mornings, delivering newspapers listening to the Countdown ... 1000words Jun 2014 #39
Don't forget his critical acting role... brooklynite Jun 2014 #40
R.I.P. Mr. Kasem olddad56 Jun 2014 #41
He was a big time progressive Adenoid_Hynkel Jun 2014 #42
More than a DJ, a supporter of Progressive causes such as justice for Palestine ellenrr Jun 2014 #43
The ULTIMATE long distance dedication. Rhinodawg Jun 2014 #44
Amazing man ripcord Jun 2014 #46
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