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35. Have your DIL post

Reply to YarnAddict (Reply #30)

Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:16 PM

Jun 2014

If people genetically screened before adoption even more kids would be unwanted

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Who am I? U.S. adoptees finally winning birth certificate rights [View all] me b zola Jun 2014 OP

So the mother cannot stay anonymous? nt Logical Jun 2014 #1

The overwhelming majority of mothers do NOT wish to be anonymous me b zola Jun 2014 #2

A right to know your ancestry? WTF? Proud Public Servant Jun 2014 #5

Well, that is the lie that the adoption industry pushes~ me b zola Jun 2014 #9

Rights are not rhetorical devices Proud Public Servant Jun 2014 #11

You don't know it's a lie Scairp Jun 2014 #49

Other contract provisions have been changed after years because they violate the rights of others. Gormy Cuss Jun 2014 #21

Hey, wait just a minute here!!! calimary Jun 2014 #25

Sorry, but no. Proud Public Servant Jun 2014 #33

The right to know IS a right. Already set up and arranged. Sorry, but no, back atcha. calimary Jun 2014 #40

My concern would be the lack of medical history for adoptees. DebJ Jun 2014 #58

"Their desire does not out weigh a person's avebury Jun 2014 #38

Hey, I never envisioned myself knocking on some little old lady's door and saying "SURPRISE!" calimary Jun 2014 #51

Nope, the personal right to your genetic legacy trumps all other concerns. Exultant Democracy Jun 2014 #3

Nice, I would suggest these mothers leave the child at a firehouse if... Logical Jun 2014 #7

Any child has a right YarnAddict Jun 2014 #4

Not fair to the mother, I bet this creates more abortions! nt Logical Jun 2014 #6

I don't think women YarnAddict Jun 2014 #8

But what women have witnessed are state governments avebury Jun 2014 #44

This is exactly what the rw christians use as a talking point me b zola Jun 2014 #12

Just because you are too closed minded to see any reason why..... Logical Jun 2014 #16

That's the silliest thing I've heard today. (And that's saying something.) eggplant Jun 2014 #19

Yes I do! Are you claiming it has NEVER been a factor? nt Logical Jun 2014 #20

No, you are "betting" that it is a factor. eggplant Jun 2014 #57

Unless that right is in the Constitution it does not exist Exposethefrauds Jun 2014 #17

I'm curious as to why you think that YarnAddict Jun 2014 #27

You adopted? Exposethefrauds Jun 2014 #28

No, I'm not YarnAddict Jun 2014 #30

Have your DIL post Exposethefrauds Jun 2014 #35

She was very wanted YarnAddict Jun 2014 #39

Few people adopt defective kids perfect and white is what is wanted Exposethefrauds Jun 2014 #42

What does this have anything to do with the thread? eggplant Jun 2014 #56

So you must be adopted correct? Exposethefrauds Jun 2014 #64

The biological parents can leave an adoption agency avebury Jun 2014 #43

And the thing that people forget, or don't bother to think about, is the adoptee's kids. calimary Jun 2014 #46

I am adopted Proud Public Servant Jun 2014 #10

Thank you for this! Nice post! nt Logical Jun 2014 #18

1962, the height of the Baby Scoop Era me b zola Jun 2014 #22

+1 Exposethefrauds Jun 2014 #24

What if YarnAddict Jun 2014 #29

Then I would be shit out of luck Proud Public Servant Jun 2014 #32

I respect your right to that opinion YarnAddict Jun 2014 #37

One person's rights should never take away someone elses. Mosby Jun 2014 #36

Roe v Wade goes back to a right to privacy. Igel Jun 2014 #54

Thank you, good post. It might be beneficial to know medical history, but there is no "right to know uppityperson Jun 2014 #63

As an adoptee, aka Bastard and a proud one too Exposethefrauds Jun 2014 #13

Amen, friend Proud Public Servant Jun 2014 #15

Good. I remember the agony a cousin of mine went through... TygrBright Jun 2014 #14

My first born was closed adoption Omaha Steve Jun 2014 #23

Two of my cousins went looking for their birth parents Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2014 #26

It wasn't just to shield the birth mother from shame, that was pretty far down on the list Warpy Jun 2014 #31

^^^All of this^^^ is true. Gormy Cuss Jun 2014 #53

it's kind of a slap in the face to the people who raised you leftyohiolib Jun 2014 #34

How so??? YarnAddict Jun 2014 #41

THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ calimary Jun 2014 #50

You base this statement on being an adoptee or birth parent, correct? Exposethefrauds Jun 2014 #45

i base this statement on a statement given to me by a woman who adopted leftyohiolib Jun 2014 #47

My family never had such insecurity issues and would never burden their adopted child with DebJ Jun 2014 #60

My adoptive parents have always encouraged me to find my birth family... elzenmahn Jun 2014 #55

We have family members and a friend who adopted DebJ Jun 2014 #59

I'm an adoptee.. SiobhanClancy Jun 2014 #48

You put it better than I did, Siobhan. calimary Jun 2014 #52

Calimary I support you and my heart goes out to you. DebJ Jun 2014 #61

My kid's dad is adopted. His birth mom found him while I was pregnant with my son. LeftyMom Jun 2014 #62