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Swede Atlanta

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20. Actually there have been interviews with a number of parents who......
Sat Jun 28, 2014, 02:04 PM
Jun 2014

did "forget" their child. Unfortunately some of these cases ended in the death of the child.

I was initially a bit skeptical but after listening to some of their stories I believe them, at least some of them.

For most of them it was either stress (such as unusually heavy traffic, work or home related stress) or an unusual circumstance (such as the father was never the one to drop the kids off or due to construction traffic was rerouted etc.) that simply took their minds from what they would normally be thinking and they went on "auto".

I know there are times when I get in the car and even if I have an important errand to run or an appointment will find myself at home having just cruised on "auto pilot".

It isn't forgivable but I can see where it could happen. Everyone is so stressed these days.

The one woman who was interviewed, an attorney, says she places her work shoes in the back seat next to her child now. She wears a pair of slippers to drive. Since she can't go into her law office in slippers she always remembers her child. They are suggesting parents place their purse, briefcase, cell phone or anything else that they would either never leave the car without or would quickly remember they had left it in the seat next to the child.

This case now appears to be turning into something unbelievably cruel and vicious. The little boy is being laid to rest today in Alabama. Her father of course cannot attend the services.

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Wow. Normally I would figure this was an accident, or stupidity, but now... Shrike47 Jun 2014 #1
The cruelty in this world makes me want to crawl under my bed and stay there. redwitch Jun 2014 #2
NO child support, of course Demeter Jun 2014 #7
you and me both. Send them to me. I will take them. I weep for humanity roguevalley Jun 2014 #23
... shenmue Jun 2014 #3
No words. AllyCat Jun 2014 #4
Makes one rethink packman Jun 2014 #5
True. Louisiana1976 Jun 2014 #28
If this piece of dog shit actually planned and carried out the murder of his child in such a manner tularetom Jun 2014 #6
I agree demigoddess Jun 2014 #16
How could a person do this to their child? dotymed Jun 2014 #8
how could a person do this to anyone? Skittles Jun 2014 #17
Because they view people as things laundry_queen Jun 2014 #37
I have an ex like that, too Demeter Jul 2014 #46
Local news also reported he went to the vehicle at least once during the day groundloop Jun 2014 #9
I read that too. A camera caught him putting something in his car around the noon hour. Sunlei Jun 2014 #11
So am I. mimi85 Jun 2014 #32
I live in Atlanta and have been following this story closely....... Swede Atlanta Jun 2014 #10
They canceled the online petition soon as the 1st degree charge, details were released. Sunlei Jun 2014 #14
People jump to conclusions too fast on these things obama2terms Jun 2014 #40
you're right, the internet spreads social gossip, faster than all the facts. Sunlei Jun 2014 #41
So, wait ... are you saying 'step 2' happened IN THAT ORDER? brett_jv Jun 2014 #34
Wow. That just boggles the mind. leftyladyfrommo Jun 2014 #12
heartbreaking cerveza_gratis Jun 2014 #45
I would be worried sick BuelahWitch Jun 2014 #13
He RESEARCHED it??? How much research does it take to say to yourself, DesertDiamond Jun 2014 #15
Exactly, that's a HUGE hole in his alibi n/t arcane1 Jun 2014 #27
Researching it is not a problem. LisaL Jun 2014 #31
I hope this was an accident..... Rhinodawg Jun 2014 #18
Speaking as a parent, no one "forgets" their child. Ever. McCamy Taylor Jun 2014 #19
Actually there have been interviews with a number of parents who...... Swede Atlanta Jun 2014 #20
A neighbor who had been on the grave yard shift got home and drove his wife to her job. 1monster Jun 2014 #22
You're wrong about that. Read this article: tblue37 Jun 2014 #35
EXCELLENT article, tblue37, thank you! undiegrinder Jun 2014 #39
that is complete bullshit Skittles Jun 2014 #38
"Fearful?" or "Hopeful?" Wow. n/t TygrBright Jun 2014 #21
I hope he didn't do it. itsrobert Jun 2014 #26
If I ever forgot my daughter in the car and she died like this NickB79 Jun 2014 #24
yeah I agree d_r Jun 2014 #29
Yesterday, the story was... Helen Borg Jun 2014 #25
And? LisaL Jun 2014 #30
Seriously, I'm so forgetful that if I ever had a child (I don't) I literally would be terrified I .. brett_jv Jun 2014 #33
His "research" puts a different spin on things, to say the least. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #36
This is a great piece on this from the Washington Post Sunday Magazine, 2009 KinMd Jun 2014 #42
Monstrous Alex P Notkeaton Jun 2014 #43
Everyone who has read this far should share this advice - hedgehog Jun 2014 #44
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