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undiegrinder

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39. EXCELLENT article, tblue37, thank you!
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 01:35 PM
Jun 2014

This is one of those sad, awful news stories that's especially conducive to making snap-assumptions about guilt -- or even skipping the assumptions entirely and jumping straight to deciding the best way of torturing the accused to death.

IMHO (and with no insult to guilt-assumers intended) the article you link to is a total MUST READ for those of us who prefer instead to withhold judgment -- at least for now -- and burden ourselves with additional, potentially-guilt blurring facts and information ... for example:

Todd Costello of Medina, Ohio, lost his son, Tyler, in 2002 after forgetting the 9-month-old in the back of his car in his office parking lot. He's had to find a way to live with the guilt. "On that morning," he says, "I had to make brief trips from building to building, and it took me past my car. But from that position, you couldn't see into the car. It was just a ball of windshield glare. I know that is a fact. But in my dreams, that scenario changes a little. I can see my son in the car. I wave, and I say, 'I'll be right back, Tyler.'"


It DOES seem hard to believe Harris could so quickly forget his son was in the car, however:

Several people ... have driven from their workplace to the day-care center to pick up the child they’d thought they’d dropped off, never noticing the corpse in the back seat.


It IS daming that security camera footage shows Harris making a lunchtime visit to his car, opening the front passenger door and putting something inside, but:

Then there is the Chattanooga, Tenn., business executive who must live with this: His motion-detector car alarm went off three separate times, out there in the broiling sun. But when he looked out, he couldn’t see anyone tampering with the car. So he remotely deactivated the alarm and went calmly back to work.


And since Harris' family and legal reps are all refusing to comment, there IS nothing but his seemingly-dubious statements to police to support his innocence, and yet (from an article about little Cooper's funeral which was held this past Saturday):

Harris' wife Leanna said "Ross is, was and will be a great daddy," to which family and friends gave a standing ovation, Leanna told the crowd she is not angry with her husband over their son's death.

Around 200 people attended the services for 22-month-old Cooper. Church officials told us the family would not make any statements to the media. But inside the funeral they spoke glowingly of Ross Harris who was listening via speakerphone from Jail.


Yes, it IS highly incriminating that Harris searched the internet re: children dying in overheated cars, but that sure seems like an extremely risky and inexact (not to mention unimaginably heartless) way to murder his infant son. But then, I don't have kids and I'm incapable of murder ...

One final, glaringly missing piece of this puzzle is motive. Of the dozen or so articles I've read about this case so far, not ONE has ventured so much as a single word as to WHY Harris would commit such a terrible crime.

Maybe there's at least a shred of validity to some of these points ... or maybe it's all just desperate bullshit I've concocted because I've reached my limit and can't face even one more example of how monstrous humans can be ... I don't know ...

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Wow. Normally I would figure this was an accident, or stupidity, but now... Shrike47 Jun 2014 #1
The cruelty in this world makes me want to crawl under my bed and stay there. redwitch Jun 2014 #2
NO child support, of course Demeter Jun 2014 #7
you and me both. Send them to me. I will take them. I weep for humanity roguevalley Jun 2014 #23
... shenmue Jun 2014 #3
No words. AllyCat Jun 2014 #4
Makes one rethink packman Jun 2014 #5
True. Louisiana1976 Jun 2014 #28
If this piece of dog shit actually planned and carried out the murder of his child in such a manner tularetom Jun 2014 #6
I agree demigoddess Jun 2014 #16
How could a person do this to their child? dotymed Jun 2014 #8
how could a person do this to anyone? Skittles Jun 2014 #17
Because they view people as things laundry_queen Jun 2014 #37
I have an ex like that, too Demeter Jul 2014 #46
Local news also reported he went to the vehicle at least once during the day groundloop Jun 2014 #9
I read that too. A camera caught him putting something in his car around the noon hour. Sunlei Jun 2014 #11
So am I. mimi85 Jun 2014 #32
I live in Atlanta and have been following this story closely....... Swede Atlanta Jun 2014 #10
They canceled the online petition soon as the 1st degree charge, details were released. Sunlei Jun 2014 #14
People jump to conclusions too fast on these things obama2terms Jun 2014 #40
you're right, the internet spreads social gossip, faster than all the facts. Sunlei Jun 2014 #41
So, wait ... are you saying 'step 2' happened IN THAT ORDER? brett_jv Jun 2014 #34
Wow. That just boggles the mind. leftyladyfrommo Jun 2014 #12
heartbreaking cerveza_gratis Jun 2014 #45
I would be worried sick BuelahWitch Jun 2014 #13
He RESEARCHED it??? How much research does it take to say to yourself, DesertDiamond Jun 2014 #15
Exactly, that's a HUGE hole in his alibi n/t arcane1 Jun 2014 #27
Researching it is not a problem. LisaL Jun 2014 #31
I hope this was an accident..... Rhinodawg Jun 2014 #18
Speaking as a parent, no one "forgets" their child. Ever. McCamy Taylor Jun 2014 #19
Actually there have been interviews with a number of parents who...... Swede Atlanta Jun 2014 #20
A neighbor who had been on the grave yard shift got home and drove his wife to her job. 1monster Jun 2014 #22
You're wrong about that. Read this article: tblue37 Jun 2014 #35
EXCELLENT article, tblue37, thank you! undiegrinder Jun 2014 #39
that is complete bullshit Skittles Jun 2014 #38
"Fearful?" or "Hopeful?" Wow. n/t TygrBright Jun 2014 #21
I hope he didn't do it. itsrobert Jun 2014 #26
If I ever forgot my daughter in the car and she died like this NickB79 Jun 2014 #24
yeah I agree d_r Jun 2014 #29
Yesterday, the story was... Helen Borg Jun 2014 #25
And? LisaL Jun 2014 #30
Seriously, I'm so forgetful that if I ever had a child (I don't) I literally would be terrified I .. brett_jv Jun 2014 #33
His "research" puts a different spin on things, to say the least. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #36
This is a great piece on this from the Washington Post Sunday Magazine, 2009 KinMd Jun 2014 #42
Monstrous Alex P Notkeaton Jun 2014 #43
Everyone who has read this far should share this advice - hedgehog Jun 2014 #44
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