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Judi Lynn

(164,122 posts)
38. N.Y. Times: Best of Friends, Worlds Apart
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 08:12 PM
Sep 2014

Best of Friends, Worlds Apart



[font size=1] Librado Romero/ The New York Times [/font]

Joel Ruiz Is Black.
Achmed Valdés Is White.
In America They Discovered It Matters.

By MIRTA OJITO

MIAMI -- Havana, sometime before 1994: As dusk descends on the quaint seaside village of Guanabo, two young men kick a soccer ball back and forth and back and forth across the sand. The tall one, Joel Ruiz, is black. The short, wiry one, Achmed Valdés, is white.

They are the best of friends.

Miami, January 2000: Mr. Valdés is playing soccer, as he does every Saturday, with a group of light-skinned Latinos in a park near his apartment. Mr. Ruiz surprises him with a visit, and Mr. Valdés, flushed and sweating, runs to greet him. They shake hands warmly. But when Mr. Valdés darts back to the game, Mr. Ruiz stands off to the side, arms crossed, looking on as his childhood friend plays the game that was once their shared joy. Mr. Ruiz no longer plays soccer. He prefers basketball with black Latinos and African-Americans from his neighborhood.

The two men live only four miles apart, not even 15 minutes by car. Yet they are separated by a far greater distance, one they say they never envisioned back in Cuba.

In ways that are obvious to the black man but far less so to the white one, they have grown apart in the United States because of race. For the first time, they inhabit a place where the color of their skin defines the outlines of their lives -- where they live, the friends they make, how they speak, what they wear, even what they eat. "It's like I am here and he is over there," Mr. Ruiz said. "And we can't cross over to the other's world."

It is not that, growing up in Cuba's mix of black and white, they were unaware of their difference in color. Fidel Castro may have decreed an end to racism in Cuba, but that does not mean racism has simply gone away. Still, color was not what defined them. Nationality, they had been taught, meant far more than race. They felt, above all, Cuban.

More:
http://partners.nytimes.com/library/national/race/060500ojito-cuba.html



[font size=1]Joel Ruiz, left, who fled Cuba several years ago by boat, now lives in Miami and works in a
bar at night. Achmed Valdés, right, also came over by boat with his wife Yvette. His mother
lives nearby in Miami and he works as a truck driver, delivering mattresses throughout
Florida.

Librado Romero/ The New York Times [/font]


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But...but...how can this be? A Round Tuit Sep 2014 #1
Really? heaven05 Sep 2014 #2
you do not know a thing about Cuba Billy Budd Sep 2014 #3
Get a grip on reality A Round Tuit Sep 2014 #5
so two relatives in Cuba Billy Budd Sep 2014 #8
A trade embargo is not "Blockading Cuba" EX500rider Sep 2014 #11
Yes, but the US is the closest and biggest market cosmicone Sep 2014 #14
"Bautista's cronies" have all been dead for awhile.... EX500rider Sep 2014 #15
Their progeny and DNA lives on ... cosmicone Sep 2014 #17
We see one daily on msnbc flamingdem Sep 2014 #20
No they are not free to do that ....The US Empire is quite evil Billy Budd Sep 2014 #22
"most countries fear the consequences of relations with Cuba" EX500rider Sep 2014 #41
the US creates consequences to strangle Cuba's economy Billy Budd Sep 2014 #48
Cub'a command economy is what strangles Cuba's economy. EX500rider Sep 2014 #55
so in your opinion Billy Budd Sep 2014 #73
For the 3rd time is no blockade. That would involve the US Navy keeping all ships away from Cuba. EX500rider Sep 2014 #77
There is a blockade for the fourth time Billy Budd Sep 2014 #80
Wrong EX500rider Sep 2014 #81
Cuba has suffered economic damages Billy Budd Sep 2014 #82
There is NO blockade...there IS a trade embargo EX500rider Sep 2014 #83
Have you actually been to Cuba? Sen. Walter Sobchak Sep 2014 #71
Lift the embargo, yes Babel_17 Sep 2014 #4
The biggest obstacle are Castro and the "Cuban Exiles" Archae Sep 2014 #6
Castro never gunned down students on the street Billy Budd Sep 2014 #29
That is a damned lie. AngryAmish Sep 2014 #44
There are no Castro death squads Billy Budd Sep 2014 #47
Thanks! I was wildly confused about how Somoza got in there! Judi Lynn Sep 2014 #74
Los Tigres de Manferrer Billy Budd Sep 2014 #75
Great post, couldn't agree more. eom eissa Sep 2014 #65
the US is not the whole world quadrature Sep 2014 #7
They don't have a ton of relatives in other countries. MADem Sep 2014 #9
OK, so smuggling is good or bad ..?..nt quadrature Sep 2014 #18
What does smuggling have to do with any of this? MADem Sep 2014 #19
The US Government punishes those who trade with Cuba Billy Budd Sep 2014 #28
"The US Government punishes those who trade with Cuba" EX500rider Sep 2014 #62
look at my links Billy Budd Sep 2014 #68
Lazily following A Policy Billy Budd Sep 2014 #23
Of course, someone will be along to tell me how Castro and/or Raul blah blah blah MyNameGoesHere Sep 2014 #10
LOVE, love, love your avatar eissa Sep 2014 #60
Shame he was overshadowed by MyNameGoesHere Sep 2014 #70
Funny. Last yr all three major kitchen shopping guides said "don't buy any new toaster." kickysnana Sep 2014 #25
You got it! Outstanding. n/t Judi Lynn Sep 2014 #36
Cuba can't afford to buy anything so we aren't losing much trade Bacchus4.0 Sep 2014 #43
Cause our propaganda is much, much better than our reality. kickysnana Sep 2014 #45
They wouldn't need to have friends and relatives bring them goods if their standard of living was Bacchus4.0 Sep 2014 #46
Let me guess, FR is down today and you're feeling lonely. n/t Monk06 Sep 2014 #31
The US should blockade your house next. /nt Ash_F Sep 2014 #76
That's the best you got? A Round Tuit Sep 2014 #78
Castro condemned and rejected the US economic model Zorro Sep 2014 #12
Because no one suffers under the US economic model..... ForgoTheConsequence Sep 2014 #13
Not to the extent the Cuban people suffer Zorro Sep 2014 #16
Today, not in the past I would beg to differ. n/t kickysnana Sep 2014 #27
There are no homeless people in Cuba. What can you say about the U.S.? Judi Lynn Sep 2014 #37
Cuba sounds like a wonderful place Zorro Sep 2014 #40
Uhh... yeah, actually there are. Sen. Walter Sobchak Sep 2014 #72
you are correct sir ...See Ferguson, Missouri Billy Budd Sep 2014 #26
Racism in Cuba is far worse. joshcryer Sep 2014 #33
and your metrics are ? Billy Budd Sep 2014 #34
N.Y. Times: Best of Friends, Worlds Apart Judi Lynn Sep 2014 #38
This message was self-deleted by its author Billy Budd Sep 2014 #49
Not as a natural result Billy Budd Sep 2014 #24
Cuba's shitty economy is the fault of the "US Military Industrial Complex Empire"? Zorro Sep 2014 #42
here are some metrics Billy Budd Sep 2014 #50
Your bolded text is not a metric Zorro Sep 2014 #52
not really Billy Budd Sep 2014 #53
Again, the US has no "blockade" of Cuba. EX500rider Sep 2014 #63
The only sense this makes is that the flamingdem Sep 2014 #21
I can see why they would do this. Demand for goods from the outside in a closed society can be jwirr Sep 2014 #30
Increasing expectations are dangerous to the Cuban government hack89 Sep 2014 #32
It certainly leads to a more polarized society flamingdem Sep 2014 #35
Why is no one concerned the United States FORBIDS TRAVEL TO CUBA for ordinary citizens? Judi Lynn Sep 2014 #39
Always interesting to see non-capitalism in action, Nye Bevan Sep 2014 #51
Castro speaks Truth to power so he is hated Billy Budd Sep 2014 #54
What is Fidel's net worth? Throd Sep 2014 #56
You have figures from who ? Billy Budd Sep 2014 #57
"...he lives in a modest house ....." EX500rider Sep 2014 #64
Sanchez [alleged bodyguard] is the spy who came in to be sold Billy Budd Sep 2014 #66
So a Russian Shevchenko was lying seems non-applicable. EX500rider Sep 2014 #67
its how the CIA uses defectors a template Billy Budd Sep 2014 #69
Castro per Forbes Billy Budd Sep 2014 #58
Castro speaks like a populist, but eissa Sep 2014 #59
and you know this how? Billy Budd Sep 2014 #61
You Sir are correct warrant46 Sep 2014 #85
I'm pretty sure I'm not allowed to fly with a flat screen TV anywhere either. Starry Messenger Sep 2014 #79
I don't see why any Cuban would have any use for Yanqui cachivaches. Dreamer Tatum Sep 2014 #84
USA airlines will miss those extra bags fees! Sunlei Sep 2014 #86
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