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kickysnana

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38. Good parents are made not born. DU needs to think before we attack.

Sat Sep 13, 2014, 03:37 AM

Sep 2014

What good would prison, loss of career do for either his dad or his son? Such venom!

There is a whole segment of America and the world that sees corporal punishment such as spanking as not only proper but holy. (Not me) You only know what you have lived and whooping is what Peterson lived. When your whole life is football, or business or medicine, you may have missed the part about the world having changed (or not see above). His child misbehaved badly. He was confused by his kids response to being disciplined. He did not hide what he was doing.

The man needs a parenting classes and a chance to get to know and have a relationship with his son. His son needs a few classes also, it is not normal for a kid to try to kill another kid (brothers excluded, which is why there are parents) and that would have freaked me out as a young parent.

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Warrant issued for arrest of Vikings' Peterson (Trigger Warning: Graphic description of child abuse) [View all] Bjorn Against Sep 2014 OP

I am really at a loss trying to figure this out. I thought as a society we had moved on madinmaryland Sep 2014 #1

Unfortunately we haven't (as a whole). nt awoke_in_2003 Sep 2014 #18

That was not disipline. Those pics are from a week after the beating Sopkoviak Sep 2014 #2

That was just a flat out beating ripcord Sep 2014 #36

Is it certain that he wasn't involved in the death of his child last year? JVS Sep 2014 #3

Yes, he had never met the kid. NaturalHigh Sep 2014 #44

Wow, I was 12 when my dad hit me in the face the first time rickyhall Sep 2014 #4

I sympathize cali Sep 2014 #6

There was a time when this wasnt called abuse, it was called a whooping 951-Riverside Sep 2014 #5

It is child abuse and there is no excuse for it Bjorn Against Sep 2014 #8

Its the worst thing in the world to hear about but... 951-Riverside Sep 2014 #12

Believe me I am all too aware it happens, I care for a child who suffered brain damage from abuse Bjorn Against Sep 2014 #13

my mother was beaten as a child 10 kids and the depression hollysmom Sep 2014 #32

It's criminal abuse and your generalizations are a heaping pile of shit. shame. cali Sep 2014 #9

??????????????? onecent Sep 2014 #14

His own lawyer has implied rocktivity Sep 2014 #15

Not defending him because he is an abuser. But as a social worker who investigated abuse you jwirr Sep 2014 #20

For my parents' generation, it was discipline, not abuse -- and "everybody did it" rocktivity Sep 2014 #24

stuffing leaves in the mouth of th kid for crying is not reasonable punishment in any culture hollysmom Sep 2014 #34

I totally agree with what you have said about Peterson. He has lived in a very progressive state jwirr Sep 2014 #41

was popular among southern whites too. My mother loved to use switches CBGLuthier Sep 2014 #17

Others use bare hands on bare behinds and swear it's not abuse. Dont call me Shirley Sep 2014 #19

Not sure where that photo is from Blue_Tires Sep 2014 #23

but not just Black families....White families in the South too.... VanillaRhapsody Sep 2014 #30

The words I always dreaded to hear when I was at a friend's house: Art_from_Ark Sep 2014 #45

It was pretty abusive at my house..... VanillaRhapsody Sep 2014 #47

This is abuse plain and simple obama2terms Sep 2014 #40

Football brain trauma ErikJ Sep 2014 #7

and 'roids. hollysmom Sep 2014 #35

�Daddy Peterson...� Is that a direct quote? rocktivity Sep 2014 #10

The child lives with his mother and was visiting Peterson Bjorn Against Sep 2014 #11

Link says he repeated what was done to him as a child. The long line of abuse must be broken. freshwest Sep 2014 #16

I know this is a bit off topic davidpdx Sep 2014 #22

There was a pro athlete who grew up with so much abuse rocktivity Sep 2014 #25

I think that's a bit late to deal with such trama davidpdx Sep 2014 #26

You made the right choice for you. I think some haven't comprehended their own wounds, but you have. freshwest Sep 2014 #27

I should add to the story that when I was 19 I had a close call davidpdx Sep 2014 #29

Its exactly why I didn't have children.....I didn't want to become that..... VanillaRhapsody Sep 2014 #31

I'm glad to hear you got out and that you didn't have kids davidpdx Sep 2014 #37

Ahhh stupid people.... the_sly_pig Sep 2014 #21

And there in lies the problem davidpdx Sep 2014 #28

These are moneymakers for the corporations. Also, ignorant bullies who in now way should be TheNutcracker Sep 2014 #33

Good parents are made not born. DU needs to think before we attack. kickysnana Sep 2014 #38

I broke my cycle. WTF should I forgive an asshole who went to college and still did this? CBGLuthier Sep 2014 #39

Nice language. I can tell you are good with kids. n/t kickysnana Sep 2014 #43

what a piece of shit d_b Sep 2014 #42

Watch for how this plays out in Montgomery County, Texas. Paladin Sep 2014 #46