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Wed Nov 17, 2021, 10:48 PM Nov 2021

This one goes out to every whiny brat restaurant customer [View all]

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. . . From customers berating me and my co-workers because we’re out of ranch dressing for their takeout order (we all know you have some at home) to being yelled at for things I can’t control (I didn’t overcook your steak; I’ve never cooked a steak, period), to closing up after a double shift at 11 p.m. and getting less in tips than you’d see in a street player’s guitar case on a Tuesday afternoon, I’m quickly running out of patience and the willingness to work.

On top of this, I’m a high school senior taking four Advanced Placement classes, dual enrolling at my local university, submitting college applications and trying to do enough extracurriculars to convince admissions officers that I’m the next Mother Teresa or Elon Musk.
Some friends tell me I should “just not work.” Really? In this economy? My social-worker mother and construction-manager father simply don’t make enough to pay — along with supporting my siblings and taking care of all their other financial responsibilities — for what might be tens of thousands of dollars in tuition. My average $350 weekly income is my measly attempt to make up the difference that federal student aid, scholarships, tuition assistance and student loans won’t cover.
Did you quit your job or lose employees this year? We want to hear from you.

My deteriorating state of mind struggles to accommodate the degree of suffering inflicted on grown adults by the unavailability of ranch dressing.

I have six co-workers in the restaurant’s to-go department. Several of them are working second and even third jobs. I’m the youngest; the oldest has two school-age children. I think it’s fair to say we’re all tired, overworked and (mentally) beaten down.

We serve all kinds of people. Some of them I go to school with; some are stressed parents; some are kind and some are awful; some are retirees; some don’t know how many are in a dozen. From the restaurant worker’s side, the impact of each interaction with customers rests on two things: the tip amount and how the customer behaves.

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the author should do the customers a favor and get a different job nt msongs Nov 2021 #1
? Skittles Nov 2021 #2
Odd reaction Hekate Nov 2021 #3
YES!!!! Totally agree. And what kind of restaurant is this Laura PourMeADrink Nov 2021 #4
Agreed, this person would likely whine no matter what. Jon King Nov 2021 #7
I am glad that your family has had that experience with this work. ramen Nov 2021 #9
Wow PJMcK Nov 2021 #20
And when she does, the reaction will be: "What? No sticktoitiveness?" Aristus Nov 2021 #22
I think we're still in the period when soldierant Nov 2021 #5
Huh? Lots of folks go to restaurants these days. Jon King Nov 2021 #6
You may not live in an area where you are surrounded by MAGAts. soldierant Nov 2021 #8
That does make a huge difference!!! If I get to travel Laura PourMeADrink Nov 2021 #11
Definitely true in the red areas. I've heard many servers complain about the way they're treated. catrose Nov 2021 #12
Wonder why that is? Because diners don't give a flip Laura PourMeADrink Nov 2021 #14
Yes, exactly. catrose Nov 2021 #15
I pick up food from restaurants Skittles Nov 2021 #10
Yes and that is a new phenomenon. Laura PourMeADrink Nov 2021 #13
I call it "pandemic tipping" Skittles Nov 2021 #16
+ Entitled and cheap asses in restaurants but for service workers as a whole it's not new luckone Nov 2021 #17
I have gone my entire life without ever being mean to a service worker Skittles Nov 2021 #18
Yep, I'm with you, Skittles PJMcK Nov 2021 #21
I appreciate them, they are performing a service for me Skittles Nov 2021 #23
My wife and I have gone out to eat regularly even before Tomconroy Nov 2021 #19
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