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getagrip_already

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15. Never confuse who you are for what you do.....

Thu Jun 1, 2023, 09:58 AM

Jun 2023

That is the most devastating thing I've seen coworkers deal with when they lose their job and can't find another in their field.

You aren't a project manager, or senior manager of blah. That is what you do to pay bills. You may enjoy it, you may be good at it, but don't let it define you.

Yes, there are exceptions. But 99% of people don't fit the mold of Einstein or Carl Sagan or even fauci.

Find something you enjoy, or that makes you feel good to do. And when that ends, find something else.

Just my jaded view of the corporate slave......

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No One Really Tells You The Hardest Part Of Getting Older [View all] Diamond_Dog Jun 2023 OP

Working life for me was all about paying my bills, it was a constant stress. lark Jun 2023 #1

You just don't know how much time you're going to have to spend on repair and maintenance Walleye Jun 2023 #2

Very true. Diamond_Dog Jun 2023 #3

Of the house and yourself! (nt) Pinback Jun 2023 #12

My work life was satisfying but I'm much happier now. quaint Jun 2023 #4

THIS 🙏 iluvtennis Jun 2023 #32

AMEN !! soldierant Jun 2023 #42

I'm just glad that my time is my own wryter2000 Jun 2023 #72

+1000 n/t MarcA Jun 2023 #75

Yep. Freethinker65 Jun 2023 #5

"Youth is wasted on the young" is an adage for a reason. BlueTsunami2018 Jun 2023 #6

Ohh, don't hate yourself. 1WorldHope Jun 2023 #37

Also agree, don't hate yourself sunnybrook Jun 2023 #102

My biggest regret is not living in another country (or two) when I was younger. Lonestarblue Jun 2023 #7

There used to be a program for seniors similar to the exchange student program. japple Jun 2023 #9

Thanks! That would be interesting. Lonestarblue Jun 2023 #10

Just found it. It used to be called Elderhostel but is now Road Scholar. japple Jun 2023 #18

Thank you, this looks like a great resource RainCaster Jun 2023 #23

Yes, thank you..I've saved it. Deuxcents Jun 2023 #93

Is it called Road Scholars? whathehell Jun 2023 #22

In Nebraska it's called OLLI. nt 1WorldHope Jun 2023 #41

OLLI is a day program offered in local universities, etc. No Vested Interest Jun 2023 #90

I was so lucky to be employed as a companion in my early 30's 1WorldHope Jun 2023 #99

Im overseas for nearly 3 years. A good doctor, pharmacist is essential. Tetrachloride Jun 2023 #96

Colonel Sanders was like 65 when he started KFC IronLionZion Jun 2023 #8

I found the pot of gold at the end of my rainbow. The doctors got all the gold. Wonder Why Jun 2023 #11

dreams don't die, they just age too GenXer47 Jun 2023 #13

No one is ever too old to be creative, or too old to learn. And that creativity highplainsdem Jun 2023 #14

Never confuse who you are for what you do..... getagrip_already Jun 2023 #15

I'm totally defined by my job Shermann Jun 2023 #80

Until you can't do that any longer.... getagrip_already Jun 2023 #106

Diamond_Dog ......................Retiring.... Upthevibe Jun 2023 #16

And... True Dough Mar 2024 #111

Maybe Erma Bombeck can help Farmer-Rick Jun 2023 #17

I remember Erma Bombeck's columns markodochartaigh Jun 2023 #66

There is an existential essence to what you've expressed which I won't presume to address. Magoo48 Jun 2023 #19

I do not miss getting up at 5:30 in the morning to get ready to go to work. Chainfire Jun 2023 #20

Amen to that Joinfortmill Jun 2023 #27

It's great people find satisfying things to do JohnnyRingo Jun 2023 #21

Triumph.. TRIUMPH ? TeamProg Jun 2023 #52

How cool! Always awesome to find another LBC person! JohnnyRingo Jun 2023 #86

Very nice pair! With Red Lines, too! Classic. TeamProg Jun 2023 #88

Love that GT. JohnnyRingo Jun 2023 #100

BTW... While we're on the subject. JohnnyRingo Jun 2023 #108

Looks like a great resource, thanks. Does he post on TeamProg Jun 2023 #109

I doubt he does any social media. JohnnyRingo Jun 2023 #110

Boy, do I hear you... Joinfortmill Jun 2023 #24

Diamond Dog, thank you for posting this. I think you may have just saved my life. LaMouffette Jun 2023 #25

For me, the hardest part Is that physically I feel like I'm still 30 tavernier Jun 2023 #26

👍 Joinfortmill Jun 2023 #28

-- NJCher Jun 2023 #44

Ha! 2naSalit Jun 2023 #53

I'm inching towards being able to leave work. MontanaMama Jun 2023 #29

When your son graduates Diamond_Dog Jun 2023 #61

I've been crying for two weeks! MontanaMama Jun 2023 #63

His accomplishments are a great reflection of you, Mama. Deuxcents Jun 2023 #94

Old isn't for sissies, that's for sure. ananda Jun 2023 #30

I spend at least an hour every morning soldierant Jun 2023 #45

Good for you. I changed my diet and do PT exercises. ananda Jun 2023 #70

What I eat is limited by my food allergies soldierant Jun 2023 #85

I hear you. ananda Jun 2023 #87

I worked to live, Beachnutt Jun 2023 #31

I love being retired and able to do what I want Tree Lady Jun 2023 #33

I need a job! usonian Jun 2023 #34

you and I sound very similar NJCher Jun 2023 #48

I knew there was an "evil twin" out there. usonian Jun 2023 #54

LOL NJCher Jun 2023 #55

The worst thing Traildogbob Jun 2023 #35

Living under other people's expectations continues nuxvomica Jun 2023 #36

And when I retired at 50, people couldn't understand why I didn't have a job. Midnight Writer Jun 2023 #65

Health issues are the 'fly 🪰 in the chardonnay '... rubbersole Jun 2023 #38

I have very few regrets. simply want to have a sound mind Roc2020 Jun 2023 #39

Time Lilaclady Jun 2023 #40

This is what I'm contending with right now Quanto Magnus Jun 2023 #43

This echoes my thoughts of late...Thanks for the post! qallunat Jun 2023 #46

My only regrets are about how I've treated people Orrex Jun 2023 #47

I had to stop working... 2naSalit Jun 2023 #49

Tell it, Sister! slightlv Jun 2023 #76

I hear you Skittles Jun 2023 #98

Everyone is different tiredtoo Jun 2023 #50

My life has been all about what people expected of me. I had a window opened once, a decade ago, chia Jun 2023 #51

a lot of truth here republianmushroom Jun 2023 #56

For me, the hardest part of growing older is... WestMichRad Jun 2023 #57

I didn't become a Physician Assistant until I was forty-two. Aristus Jun 2023 #58

You're too kind, Aristus. Diamond_Dog Jun 2023 #59

Don't worry; all of us are. Aristus Jun 2023 #60

Great thread, Diamond_Dog.. Permanut Jun 2023 #62

One thing I did True Blue American Jun 2023 #64

One of the things I love about being retired ... I'm finally able to own a dog FakeNoose Jun 2023 #67

Lil' bouncy! He's adorable! Diamond_Dog Jun 2023 #68

I have been extraordinarily fortunate. mike_c Jun 2023 #69

Find something creative to do wryter2000 Jun 2023 #71

My life. Richard58 Jun 2023 #73

I'm 65 and learning to play guitar JPPaverage Jun 2023 #74

Crank up the amp to 11! Shermann Jun 2023 #81

Retired early at 62 AmBlue Jun 2023 #77

I'm 80. This weekend was spent with the kids and grandkids at an AirB in Pennsylvania. 8:30 p.m. 3Hotdogs Jun 2023 #78

No idea stillspkg Jun 2023 #79

I did become a nurse, working those 12 hour shifts Warpy Jun 2023 #82

I'm 81. No regrets. trof Jun 2023 #83

OMG I loved TWA Skittles Jun 2023 #97

I am grinding the wheat as well, but Javaman Jun 2023 #84

I have taken up telling "dad" jokes... PXR-5 Jun 2023 #89

I guess Mr Lake and I are the lucky ones. LakeArenal Jun 2023 #91

I've found that I've been living through several "careers", calimary Jun 2023 #92

Bannon turned himself in. Guo Wengui was at the end of his rope. Abigail233333 Jun 2023 #95

I feel a song coming on! Aussie105 Jun 2023 #101

The song, "My Way", has also been used by very destructive people who hurt a lot of people in their CTyankee Jun 2023 #107

I'm nearly 66 and I find it liberating samplegirl Jun 2023 #103

59 here. Woodwizard Jun 2023 #104

My father was a physician Danascot Jun 2023 #105