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In reply to the discussion: No One Really Tells You The Hardest Part Of Getting Older [View all]1WorldHope
(2,173 posts)99. I was so lucky to be employed as a companion in my early 30's
to a survivor of the Nazi's who had escaped to America, and lived a full life in NYC. She aged, her husband died, she had a stroke, and her only child, who was a grown, well educated woman with an exceptionally intelligent husband, hired me to be a companion to her mother in Nebraska. Boy did that open my eyes to other existences.... Anyway, I got to take her to an elderhastel at a local college. Wow. We attended a workshop about humor. T. Marni Voss lead the class and blew my mind. That day, under an evergreen tree, my friend Dussia, whose stroke had affected her speech, leaving her with 2 words. Yes or No. That day she told me an entire joke about a rabbi, a priest and a protestant minister. She changed my life.
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You just don't know how much time you're going to have to spend on repair and maintenance
Walleye
Jun 2023
#2
My biggest regret is not living in another country (or two) when I was younger.
Lonestarblue
Jun 2023
#7
I found the pot of gold at the end of my rainbow. The doctors got all the gold.
Wonder Why
Jun 2023
#11
No one is ever too old to be creative, or too old to learn. And that creativity
highplainsdem
Jun 2023
#14
There is an existential essence to what you've expressed which I won't presume to address.
Magoo48
Jun 2023
#19
Diamond Dog, thank you for posting this. I think you may have just saved my life.
LaMouffette
Jun 2023
#25
And when I retired at 50, people couldn't understand why I didn't have a job.
Midnight Writer
Jun 2023
#65
My life has been all about what people expected of me. I had a window opened once, a decade ago,
chia
Jun 2023
#51
One of the things I love about being retired ... I'm finally able to own a dog
FakeNoose
Jun 2023
#67
I'm 80. This weekend was spent with the kids and grandkids at an AirB in Pennsylvania. 8:30 p.m.
3Hotdogs
Jun 2023
#78