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The Doctor.

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Tue Nov 20, 2012, 01:41 AM Nov 2012

A Homeless Man Was Sitting in The MacDonald's... [View all]

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Where I stopped for some late heart-arresting fare. It was about 11 pm.

He was sitting alone in the corner. He appeared to be in his mid-sixties, was wearing a few layers of clothes that weren't filthy, but were obviously worn. He also had a bright yellow knit hat that he kept pulling on and taking off every few minutes. He hadn't bought much food, but he did keep getting up to refill his soda. When he did, it was with difficulty as he had an obvious motor disability.

He was just the sort that 'normal' people revile and avoid.

But there was something to this fellow. I couldn't put my finger on it, but I've always been pretty good at recognizing 'special' in people.

So when he got up and lingered in front of the TV to catch a clip on CNN, I got up, walked over to the TV, and said: "So, how do you think the humans are going to wind up?"

He looked at me and smiled. "Well, the humanoids are in big trouble, but they're going to be okay.". He also seemed to have trouble speaking, but I could understand him well enough.

"Really?", I asked feeling like I was participating in a non-terrestrial commentary on a planetary drama.

"Yes, they've tried to wreck things, but I've watched, and they'll make it. Getting rid of all the fear and hate is the hard part, and there is a lot of it right now, but it will eventually happen."

"I figure we'll have about 4 decades of very rough times, but I agree they'll pull through. I figured you'd know something about it."

He smiled and nodded, and we sat back down.

A few minutes later, as we were leaving, he came to me and said, "I really enjoyed my stay here and our breif conversation. You leave me intrigued, challenged, and edified."

"Thank you, so did I. Spirits be with you.", I said, and we went on our ways.

It wasn't a deep conversation, but it was apparent that no one had treated him as an equal in some time. He was genuinely pleased that I spoke to him. I have little doubt he has insights and wisdom that most 'normal' people never will.
When we look around, we judge others based on the most superficial criteria. The truth is that treasure lies inside so many people we might otherwise dismiss. Sometimes the exercise of reaching out to find it is well worth the effort.



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Thank you for being a human being MannyGoldstein Nov 2012 #1
You just made me very sad. The Doctor. Nov 2012 #7
If we don't love our selves, our humanity tama Nov 2012 #19
Givers of good vibes usually get them back, manyfold. Bozita Nov 2012 #2
You may be the conduit Iwillnevergiveup Nov 2012 #3
Warm Fuzzies DakotaLady Nov 2012 #4
Keep your lamp trimmed and burnin' DollarBillHines Nov 2012 #5
I wish I could recommend a post. The Doctor. Nov 2012 #9
Love those! CrispyQ Nov 2012 #14
Just watched a Ted talk given by Temple Grandin. JDPriestly Nov 2012 #6
I disagree Patiod Nov 2012 #13
I really like your post as much as the OP's. pacalo Nov 2012 #15
Thank you, pacalo. Patiod Nov 2012 #24
Some people who are "different" are dangerous. JDPriestly Nov 2012 #21
Thanks for sharing with us, and for reaching out to this man. babylonsister Nov 2012 #8
It cost you nothing, but was a treasure to that fellow. bluesbassman Nov 2012 #10
To The "Good" Doctor... sheshe2 Nov 2012 #11
Every homeless person has a story tblue Nov 2012 #12
Homeless talking tama Nov 2012 #20
Your post caused me to think of this - DURHAM D Nov 2012 #16
Holy Wah! Yooperman Nov 2012 #23
Sniff.. Cha Nov 2012 #17
I talk to homeless people all the time living in San Francisco. Some of them are lost souls kimbutgar Nov 2012 #18
Kudos. AverageJoe90 Nov 2012 #22
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Nov 2012 #25
Wonderful post, my friend. longship Nov 2012 #26
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