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90-percent

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17. Still time to rec up my Zappa SNL link, then.
Sun Jan 15, 2012, 10:18 AM
Jan 2012
http://www.rocklineradio.com/replay/replay.php

I am a bully magnet to this day. I think it may be why it gets me laid off from jobs more than most. I have a lot of flaws, but I'm a critical thinker and can do it quickly. That tends to frighten the empty suits I tend to end up reporting to.

For example, at the send off to our GM five years ago, my toast was; "Bill, you are one of the few people I've ever met in your level of management that wasn't a complete flaming fucking asshole." His superiors and others that flew in from the main plant may not have taken this as constructive criticism. But, I did think these guys could take a joke. I think I was channeling too much Frank Zappa and Hunter Thompson in the workplace at that time?

I will tone it down,( lessons learned) but I can't brown nose to save my freaking life, and I chafe at reporting to people I perceive as doing their jobs much worse than I do mine. But, in middle management these days, the empty suits and wastes of skin are enjoying tremendous prosperity.

-90% Jimmy

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Three situations where I worked in law firms and my bosses were very abusive. no_hypocrisy Jan 2012 #1
So true, no_hypocrisy. And courts have a terrible time dealing with the lack of civility of lawyers JDPriestly Jan 2012 #2
Agreed, they are under stress and always the scapegoat treestar Jan 2012 #4
You and I could have worked at some of the same places! Samantha Jan 2012 #9
Cruel & Boring, errr, Crowell & Moring, by any chance? (n/t) WorseBeforeBetter Jan 2012 #16
No, I have worked in two law firms with worse reputations than they Samantha Jan 2012 #18
At one time, yes, but I got out... WorseBeforeBetter Jan 2012 #19
I sure recognize this scenario. FarPoint Jan 2012 #3
So do I. 'Mobbing' is a form of group... YvonneCa Jan 2012 #12
I've experienced this too, and it can take a long time to recover. Google "workplace bullying" raccoon Jan 2012 #5
I sure will search this. FarPoint Jan 2012 #13
I think this happens more often than people think. KatyaR Jan 2012 #6
I know the places I've worked are responsible for my high BP. Fortunately it RKP5637 Jan 2012 #7
Too many bosses Mopar151 Jan 2012 #8
the bullies on Wall Street are effecting EVERY workplace yurbud Jan 2012 #10
yeah limpyhobbler Jan 2012 #11
I seem to be a magnet for bullies in my life 90-percent Jan 2012 #14
wow dude that sucks but I'm glad you got through it. limpyhobbler Jan 2012 #15
Still time to rec up my Zappa SNL link, then. 90-percent Jan 2012 #17
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