Adoption Affects on Birthmothers

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7. MarianJack

MarianJack

I guess every parent, that be biological, foster or adoptive parent want to give their children a boot in the rump sometimes.. It goes with the territory I guess...

But, it is more important to care for a child, who might other vice had been given so much care and love. Specially if the birth parent would not have anything with them to begin with.. Not everyone, who give birth to a child, is nessesary a fit parents.. And therefor it is good, that others, like you can do what the biological parents are not able, or willing to do..

I have fosterparents - who Im far closer to than my biological parents - even though I was close to my father im not not that close to my mother... And i doubt she is to me either... Even though she do call me sometimes... And I wonder sometimes, where I would have been, if i and my brother was not given the chance to have a more or less normal upbringning, in a fosterhome.. Somehow I doubt either me or my brother would have made it as we are today... More or less intact...

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