Adoption Affects on Birthmothers

[AtheistCrusader]

30. And the insensitivity of yours annoyed me pretty good.

Our adoption has none of the issues your video just cited. You have no grounds whatsoever to advocate or campaign to unseal our adoption records/birth certificate.

Some of the issues in your latest list there may exist with some adoptions, but not all. All members my ass. There is no triad. The birth mother of our son has her own family, we have ours. End of story. There is no shame. We have been made aware of no grief by the birth mother. Any mastery/control is the hands of the child, and no one else's in our adoption, as he will seek out his birth mother or not, at his own discretion.

"Adoption triggers seven lifelong or core issues for all triad members, regardless of the circumstances of the adoption or the characteristics of the participants"

Supreme arrogance and complete bullshit. And this is not just experience from observing our own adoption, which I will admit bias, but in observing other adoptions from the birth mother, the child, and the adoptive parent's sides.

You come in here waving this ALL TRIAD MEMBERS nonsense and accuse ME of insensitivity? I think not.