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In reply to the discussion: Bully calls news anchor fat, news anchor destroys him on live tv [View all]caseymoz
(5,763 posts)48. Unless it damages your livelihood
. . . or is constant harassment, that you, of course, can't get away from because it's work, or brings you to public humiliation or disgrace, that's not what I would consider bullying.
Do you agree that childhood bullying involves actions that are criminal in adulthood? It's really a surprise that we let childhood bullying go on as long as it has. I think stopping it is the real key to changing this culture to the better.
But in trying to extend it to adult behavior, we've missed that point. Really, is there some flaw to my reasoning?
Why should it be used to designate behavior that's merely rude, boorish and ignorant? There's only one reason I could think of: because we've thought of it as normal thing in childhood for so long we expect it to be more normal and common in adulthood. When really it isn't, because in adulthood there are laws against it; and many bullies are either serving time or on probation and parole.
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Powerful message. I know as a fat person myself and had somewhat of an experience that
southernyankeebelle
Oct 2012
#18
Bullying is every where. At your job, at school at social organizations and even here in DU. nm
rhett o rick
Oct 2012
#17
Truth: She IS fat. Far BIGGER truth: He needed that can of Whoop ASS (TM).
kestrel91316
Oct 2012
#20
As long as diabetics, cancer survivors, hair transplant recipients, arthritis sufferers, eczema
nolabear
Oct 2012
#23
When anorexic models and actresses are no longer lionized, and when fat men aren't governors,
WinkyDink
Oct 2012
#26
If you don't mind not talking about it, you can hide easier than gender, size or color.
freshwest
Oct 2012
#60
The world is, and always has been, a dangerous place. Civilization is only skin deep.
freshwest
Oct 2012
#69
I disagree with you. I see bullying in lots of places. Some is blatant and some is subtle.
rhett o rick
Oct 2012
#65