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riderinthestorm

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35. Music. Can you burn some CD's of some oldies?
Sat Dec 17, 2011, 11:45 PM
Dec 2011

My parents are in their late seventies but they love the old teevee and radio shows. If you can't burn some CD's, try to take some time to download some of the old classic shows from their day. It's usually free - I Love Lucy, Gracie and Allen, the Honeymooners, gosh the list is endless. Then watch the programs with them so they can reminisce.

My dad loves old VHS tapes of orchestral performances: I can find old Boston Pops VHS tapes at Goodwill and he LOVES watching them. Are your parents musical? Do they play an instrument? Old sheet music of favorite hymns, jazz, big band etc. are always a hit.

Once, when I was really broke I spent the afternoon sketching them. I have never had an art class in my life, I never draw, I CAN'T draw, but spending that time drawing a portrait, really focusing on their faces, was truly touching (even if the results were awful). They craved the attention.

Foot or facial massages are always a hit. Old people LOVE tactile touch. They don't get enough of it honestly. Paint toenails or fingernails. Give them a temporary tattoo. Has Mom always wanted to be a biker chick? Get her a temporary Hells Angel tat.... Anything that really touches them....

Good luck, you are doing fine

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A new will. rug Dec 2011 #1
omg. Wait Wut Dec 2011 #37
Why not make them some homemade candy? Frosty1 Dec 2011 #2
A fruit basket? Frosty1 Dec 2011 #3
Was "killer recipes" intentional. russspeakeasy Dec 2011 #29
OMG Frosty1 Dec 2011 #38
Something aesthetically sweet or sentimental? melonkali Dec 2011 #4
A supermarket gift card? graywarrior Dec 2011 #5
My sister, who is a little tight on funds this year, Staph Dec 2011 #6
Write them an IOU pink-o Dec 2011 #7
I'm pretty sure applegrove is full time caregiver of both her parents right now Kali Dec 2011 #18
The gift of time. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #8
I'd make something homemade. Perhaps make them dinner for a week. A homemade coupon book Justice wanted Dec 2011 #9
Can you afford a photo album? Most agers have a boatload of MichiganVote Dec 2011 #10
What I would love if my kids were close rurallib Dec 2011 #11
A scrap book or an picture frame OhioBlue Dec 2011 #12
Mostly the same as last year: biscotti and kentauros Dec 2011 #13
I'll try and cook rack of lamb for them. It is my turn to cook the turkey but I just applegrove Dec 2011 #15
I'm the last person to ask advice on how to cook meat. kentauros Dec 2011 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author Bunny Dec 2011 #14
I bought books. Chan790 Dec 2011 #16
A donation gift beac Dec 2011 #19
are there pets in the house? I know you have a cat Kali Dec 2011 #20
Spend time with them. It's a gift to both of you! CottonBear Dec 2011 #21
grandchildren? Bucky Dec 2011 #22
Write them a letter Taverner Dec 2011 #23
Yes, they'd love things like treestar Dec 2011 #32
How about a picture collage... one_voice Dec 2011 #24
This is a good idea treestar Dec 2011 #31
My folks were between 65 and 70 years old when I got them one of these for about $15-$20... MiddleFingerMom Dec 2011 #25
That is a good idea. I, myself, loved those when I was a kid. I remember one time applegrove Dec 2011 #26
My mother specifically said she wanted chocolate covered cherries for Christmas. Jamastiene Dec 2011 #27
Honeybelles elleng Dec 2011 #28
Make some bird food xmas74 Dec 2011 #30
My presence. Xipe Totec Dec 2011 #33
Give them a coupon to do some work around their house LiberalEsto Dec 2011 #34
Music. Can you burn some CD's of some oldies? riderinthestorm Dec 2011 #35
Give them time. Lots and lots of time. virgogal Dec 2011 #36
I am an aging parent, but I will be happy with cash. n/t RebelOne Dec 2011 #39
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