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spooky3

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28. Have you tried telling her directly that her behavior

Reply to Aristus (Original post)

Fri Aug 17, 2018, 12:46 PM

Aug 2018

Makes you uncomfortable and you want it to stop or return to the professional level where it was previously?

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Meeting is over. It was worse than I thought. [View all] Aristus Aug 2018 OP

Resistance is Futile WheelWalker Aug 2018 #1

Well, so far, it's worked... Aristus Aug 2018 #2

Some background pls. Are you married or in a relationship? brush Aug 2018 #17

I posted in the original thread that I'm married. Aristus Aug 2018 #18

Or, you could report her for her unprofessional behavior. n/t demmiblue Aug 2018 #3

"report her" mitch96 Aug 2018 #29

I've had sales reps behave this way in the past. lapfog_1 Aug 2018 #4

Don't worry. Aristus Aug 2018 #5

you should nip this in the bud so to speak lapfog_1 Aug 2018 #6

...and she's a professional? PunksMom Aug 2018 #7

Well, she's not a dilettante. She knows her stuff re: Hep C and treatment. Aristus Aug 2018 #12

I think it's just demonstrative 😊 PunksMom Aug 2018 #19

Such an event would certainly shock the clinic staff. Aristus Aug 2018 #20

Lol! PunksMom Aug 2018 #41

HA! Aristus Aug 2018 #45

This sort of thing can get real serious real quick. If things go sideways at some point I'd be Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #8

I agree. demmiblue Aug 2018 #9

No one ever said it to me! Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #13

Since I am not your PSR... demmiblue Aug 2018 #15

Maybe from the neck up! 😏 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #24

Don't worry. I didn't. Aristus Aug 2018 #42

Oh goodness,.. just bring a double sized sleeping bag to your next meeting. magicarpet Aug 2018 #10

*sigh* The things I do for my patients... Aristus Aug 2018 #14

. magicarpet Aug 2018 #16

aren't pharmaceutical reps sales people for drug companies? dixiegrrrrl Aug 2018 #11

I'm a VP of HR. My advice is to... MANative Aug 2018 #21

Thank you. Aristus Aug 2018 #23

Follow the H.R. Manager's advice sdfernando Aug 2018 #32

this is harassment. it needs to stop. RealNewzFakePrez Aug 2018 #33

Aristus, pull an Omarosa, record it on your phone. Duppers Aug 2018 #43

It's plain old sexual harassment, just as if a male rep had tried hitting on The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2018 #22

did you score any swag? KayF Aug 2018 #25

No. I dislike swag, because of all the clutter it creates. Aristus Aug 2018 #26

Well, it looks like her colleague will be taking the helm for the next meeting in September. Aristus Aug 2018 #27

Oy! demmiblue Aug 2018 #31

No, I have had some prior visits with her colleague. Aristus Aug 2018 #37

That wasn't what the oy! was about. demmiblue Aug 2018 #38

But so was the original rep at first, right? malthaussen Aug 2018 #46

Have you tried telling her directly that her behavior spooky3 Aug 2018 #28

Legal pharmaceutical drug pushers piss me off. I think drug advertising should be outlawed. Lint Head Aug 2018 #30

People like her piss me off. ploppy Aug 2018 #34

Aristus, you must be one handsome, "ripped" dude lol steve2470 Aug 2018 #35

That's open to debate. Ask any DU-er who has seen my pics. Aristus Aug 2018 #36

Not your pics, your pecs. n/t malthaussen Aug 2018 #47

You should tell her that you subscribe to the Mike Pence Rule re: meeting with women alone. fleur-de-lisa Aug 2018 #39

Well, the next meeting in September will be with full staff. Aristus Aug 2018 #40

Meetings can be like that! n/t Upthevibe Aug 2018 #44