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hurple

(1,362 posts)
21. 6 months
Sun Mar 17, 2019, 04:58 PM
Mar 2019

August 31, 2018 I was walked out of the job that I have had for the past 21 years (almost to the day). I worked for one of the BIG Insurance companies, that just switched CEO's 5 years ago, as a Systems Analyst, and for some unknown reason the new CEO decided 2018 was a great year to cut investment in the systems department. Over a thousand were cut from that department. I was one.

It took 6 months, because of a glut of talent in the marketplace, and was the hardest thing I've ever been through in my life (and our house burned down taking *everything* my family ever owned with it 6 years ago) but I finally found another job. It pays $20,000 less than I was making, setting me back by a decade, but it has better benefits than the job I left (seriously, my first year I'll get more PTO than I was getting in a year at the old job after 20 years!) and a PENSION (which I thought I'd never have again)

It took so long because,

1) I'm 50.

B. My only Systems job has been at the insurance company, I'm entirely self-taught, and the "technical interviews" given by 99% of employers are biased against the self-taught, and older, programmers.

III - I'm not a very good interview.

6 months of fighting, not sleeping, depression and no healthcare has taken a serious toll, though. I could not get motivated to exercise (I do DDPYoga of all things) so I gained 30 lbs, and I look like I've aged about 20 years.

I sent out over 350 resumes, and interviewed so many times I've lost count (dozens, there were weeks I had at least one interview every day). The vast majority of them gave me the feedback "the interview went well, but... " followed by informing me there was another candidate that had some obscure experience in a tool or software that I've never even heard of... so they hired that person instead.

I filed the check-in for my very last unemployment check an hour before I received the email informing me of the job offer. And, I've still got 1/2 my severance money left (which wasn't as much as it should be IMO, but at least it'll help augment my new salary for a few years. I hope.

But, at least I won't be losing my house. (We got to build our dream house to replace the one that was destroyed, so losing that would have been devastating) I may not be able to eat every night, but I won't lose the house.

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Keeping my fingers crossed for you, GreenPartyVoter. In_The_Wind Mar 2019 #1
Thank you so much! GreenPartyVoter Mar 2019 #31
So sorry friend TEB Mar 2019 #2
Thank you! GreenPartyVoter Mar 2019 #32
This was my Dad's advice about finding a new job LakeArenal Mar 2019 #3
That's a good perspective for many of life's challenges. Thanks for posting. badhair77 Mar 2019 #8
I like that perspective! GreenPartyVoter Mar 2019 #33
I don't know your age, but contact AARP. Faygo Kid Mar 2019 #4
Thank you. I'm 48, so it didn't occur to me to look there for assistance. GreenPartyVoter Mar 2019 #34
Hang in there GPV! jpak Mar 2019 #5
And mud/pothole season is already here! GreenPartyVoter Mar 2019 #35
My driveway is an iceberg filled lake jpak Mar 2019 #41
This may not help, guillaumeb Mar 2019 #6
Thanks! Will look into the PO. My dad was a rural route carrier for years. GreenPartyVoter Mar 2019 #36
So sorry pamela Mar 2019 #7
Thanks!! GreenPartyVoter Mar 2019 #38
I'm not up on job hunting...been retired too long. Be confident, smiling and happy...that's Karadeniz Mar 2019 #9
Thank you! I will do my best to radiate that kind of energy. :) GreenPartyVoter Mar 2019 #39
I feel your pain. I'm losing my job too. bif Mar 2019 #10
Oh, no! I am so sorry it's happened to you too! GreenPartyVoter Mar 2019 #40
My heart goes out to you, my dear GreenPartyVoter...... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2019 #11
I'm sending positive thoughts that you get a job right away! lunatica Mar 2019 #12
As for the health insurance, Habibi Mar 2019 #13
Good idea! BigmanPigman Mar 2019 #19
My understanding is that COBRA is really expensive. Habibi Mar 2019 #22
My wise sister always told me, Delmette2.0 Mar 2019 #14
Do not allow yourself to think that Scarsdale Mar 2019 #15
But, But Kellyanne Conway just told me.. busterbrown Mar 2019 #16
Sending you good, positive energy! MLAA Mar 2019 #17
Oh so sorry hermetic Mar 2019 #18
I'm sorry Blue_playwright Mar 2019 #20
6 months hurple Mar 2019 #21
I don't K&R lightly. UTUSN Mar 2019 #23
Are you a teacher? Get on the substitute list. roody Mar 2019 #24
so sorry to hear this Kali Mar 2019 #25
Strong hugs darlin' Tikki Mar 2019 #26
All good wishes for a successful job search! Fla Dem Mar 2019 #27
Sending positive vibes. onecaliberal Mar 2019 #28
one thing i learned berksdem Mar 2019 #29
Kitties? Kimber432 Mar 2019 #30
Keep going, you have already proven that you have Miigwech Mar 2019 #37
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