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KY_EnviroGuy

(14,498 posts)
10. Chasing profits only for the man with lots of naivety in the country boy.
Mon Jun 17, 2019, 06:39 AM
Jun 2019

"That requires that someone keeps good intentions in their heart". Amen.

I had clashes with management numerous times because I always tried to do what's best for the customer - an attitude I inherited from the culture of my youth. Never could outgrow standing up for moral values, LOL. Never got me fired, but instead called out a few times.

Like you, I was a problem solver (me in engineering field service) but I always wanted the solutions to be long-lasting and achieved using sound technical practices. Management always wanted everything done fast and on the cheap. So, we somehow compromised. I think what saved me was a degree of mutual respect that existed within that group.

Although I was self-employed for much of my working days, later in life I realized I really didn't have quite enough hard-ass in me for the task. No one explained that to me at the beginning. Most of what I heard was "you can do anything if you really try".

Life is indeed one learning experience after another and the biggest of all is that we're not invincible. A second one is that it's wise to periodically take a break and do a thorough, honest personal inventory (lesson learned in my 40s in addiction recovery) but that's something rarely done these days, at least not voluntarily.

Thanks again!.......

This message was self-deleted by its author ProudLib72 Jun 2019 #1
I'm not so sure about that. Funtatlaguy Jun 2019 #2
Using it for employment is hooey: Just because someone has an inclination doesn't mean they can't fu lindysalsagal Jun 2019 #3
My original post was snarky. Sorry. I posted about how people were giving their Myers-Briggs on ProudLib72 Jun 2019 #4
I agreed with you. People are using it for all the wrong reasons. lindysalsagal Jun 2019 #5
I am supposed to be murielm99 Jun 2019 #6
So, basically, you're the shy version of me. We'd get along great!!! lindysalsagal Jun 2019 #8
I am not shy at all. murielm99 Jun 2019 #11
INFP here - almost polar opposite to you. KY_EnviroGuy Jun 2019 #7
Great perspective, KYEG: Luckily, I'm not in a competitive career, so, no back-stabbing needed. lindysalsagal Jun 2019 #9
Chasing profits only for the man with lots of naivety in the country boy. KY_EnviroGuy Jun 2019 #10
I'm also an INFP. smirkymonkey Jun 2019 #12
Thanks, I consider that a compliment. They say we're the "mediators"... KY_EnviroGuy Jun 2019 #13
Thanks for your thoughtful post KY_EnviroGuy. smirkymonkey Jun 2019 #14
Yes, if we use it to be more compassionate and understanding with one another. KY_EnviroGuy Jun 2019 #15
You too, KY! smirkymonkey Jun 2019 #16
Someone should explain for us peons and furriners what all those abbreviations mean DFW Jun 2019 #17
OK. We deserve that. Lol! lindysalsagal Jun 2019 #18
That does clear things up considerably! DFW Jun 2019 #19
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