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Soph0571

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41. You just called me common!!!!
Wed Jul 29, 2020, 06:21 PM
Jul 2020

Norn Iron working class who is not working class anymore. I will be OK. Thing is as my SO gets sicker I get angrier at all of the shit. I am actually trying not to post too much because I am guilty of the same shit every single time. I am fucked off. I should not be worrying about our leaders inability to try an deal with covid. I should not be worried about the leader of the free world being a fucking nazi. I should not have to worry about food insecurity and public health nightmares across the world because the wealthy west is not stepping up. We live in our own secure bubble and I am privileged that we can do that. But I am fucking furious that even that bubble cannot protect my wee family and at this point in time, when that should be my only focus, these democracy stealers need my fucking attention. Just fucking sayin!

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My heart breaks for both of you. Dave in VA Jul 2020 #1
Force a conversation about using chemo? If that is not an option per your comments, then Eliot Rosewater Jul 2020 #2
The people in my life have always been open about talking about things like this. Dem2theMax Jul 2020 #3
Take care of yourself. JoeOtterbein Jul 2020 #4
I'm so sorry, Soph- dawg day Jul 2020 #5
This was my first thought. Talk to the doctor. Losing weight is unhealthy...it was just on t.v. Karadeniz Jul 2020 #14
Be there for your partner. Botany Jul 2020 #6
Radiation saps you. Lars39 Jul 2020 #7
Lars that is so positive for me Soph0571 Jul 2020 #11
Yes! Hard won good advice! FailureToCommunicate Jul 2020 #24
I'm so sorry, Soph. ❤️ Cha Jul 2020 #8
Hiya! Soph0571 Jul 2020 #12
I can imagine how much it sucks.. Such an impossibly traumatic Cha Jul 2020 #15
I'm so sorry for what you are both going through LiberalLoner Jul 2020 #9
(((((((soph))))))). I have no sound advice to offer, just sending vibes for healing and strength niyad Jul 2020 #10
I posted this OP cause I just needed some positive vibes tonight Soph0571 Jul 2020 #13
all the positive I can muster handmade34 Jul 2020 #16
Just be there for him msdogi Jul 2020 #17
Soph - good thoughts and vibrations to you and your SO.. There was some good advice upstream c-rational Jul 2020 #18
What is his favorite meal that you can cook? Vdizzle Jul 2020 #19
All you describe: weight loss, fatigue, and inability to walk to the end of a street, sinkingfeeling Jul 2020 #20
This is what I have decided to do Soph0571 Jul 2020 #35
Radiation is exhausting TNNurse Jul 2020 #21
I get it, but we are Brits Soph0571 Jul 2020 #36
Imagine if you don't speak up. How would you feel if the worst happened? tinrobot Jul 2020 #22
I told him today Soph0571 Jul 2020 #40
My husband went through almost a year of chemo and radiation... mtngirl47 Jul 2020 #23
You have always been such a delightfully FailureToCommunicate Jul 2020 #25
You just called me common!!!! Soph0571 Jul 2020 #41
Does it hurt him to eat? renate Jul 2020 #26
I don't presume to offer advice to you, dear Soph0571 Ponietz Jul 2020 #27
There are so many variables. NewEnglandAutumn Jul 2020 #28
Love and positive thoughts on their way to you, Soph571. pazzyanne Jul 2020 #29
I have been through similar KentuckyWoman Jul 2020 #30
I'll give what non-medical advice I can from experience, for what it's worth nuxvomica Jul 2020 #31
I am so sorry that you are going through this. I am not a mental health professional Maraya1969 Jul 2020 #32
Don't know what to say. Xolodno Jul 2020 #33
Sending good vibes diva77 Jul 2020 #34
I'm so sorry to hear about what you are going through Soph! smirkymonkey Jul 2020 #37
All the best to you and your guy. panader0 Jul 2020 #38
I am so sorry you are going through this difficult time in your life. Fla Dem Jul 2020 #39
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