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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] Soph0571 Sep 2020 OP

I'm very sorry for your loss, Soph. MontanaMama Sep 2020 #1

My heart is with you, Soph0571. ZZenith Sep 2020 #2

I'm so sorry for your loss. LiberalLoner Sep 2020 #3

Sending you love and compassion leftieNanner Sep 2020 #4

Oh Soph, I am so sorry. FM123 Sep 2020 #5

I'm sorry. LisaM Sep 2020 #6

I am so very sorry for your pain and loss. revmclaren Sep 2020 #7

I am so sorry, Soph. My heart hurts for you. nt tblue37 Sep 2020 #8

I have been where you are. TruckFump Sep 2020 #9

Soph if you have close family or friends now is the time to lean on them. Fla Dem Sep 2020 #10

Good advice. calimary Sep 2020 #93

All I can do is give you a virtual *HUG* Nictuku Sep 2020 #11

Big hug to you. Eko Sep 2020 #12

Allowed to be pissed, allowed to be drunk and allowed to post as many threads as long as YOU LizBeth Sep 2020 #13

...and the wheel turned. WheelWalker Sep 2020 #53

I am so very very sorry Soph. skylucy Sep 2020 #14

I'm so sorry Soph MaryMagdaline Sep 2020 #15

Anger is a part of grief. Get blasted and then sleep. sinkingfeeling Sep 2020 #16

Oh, soph. I am so, so sorry. :( gristy Sep 2020 #17

So sorry! Newest Reality Sep 2020 #18

Soph I am so sorry. bronxiteforever Sep 2020 #19

Sending big hugs and comfort GeoWilliam750 Sep 2020 #20

I'm so sorry vercetti2021 Sep 2020 #21

We hear you democrank Sep 2020 #22

I am so sorry for your loss. cayugafalls Sep 2020 #23

I don't have any words of wisdom Ohiogal Sep 2020 #24

Yes, that is part of it. Anger is what I felt when my husband died suddenly of a heart japple Sep 2020 #25

So sorry! bluestarone Sep 2020 #26

It's one of many, many natural responses. herding cats Sep 2020 #27

May he have eternal rest and perpetual light. PatrickforO Sep 2020 #28

Sometimes one needs some self help. alfredo Sep 2020 #29

Let it out. CaptainTruth Sep 2020 #30

Once in a lifetime. Your time. cachukis Sep 2020 #31

Tight hugs, baby. yellerpup Sep 2020 #32

We are here for you. FailureToCommunicate Sep 2020 #33

I'll have a drink in his honor tonight too renate Sep 2020 #34

I understand Generic Brad Sep 2020 #35

I am so sad with you Mira Sep 2020 #36

Wow. Losing a spouse or partner is one of the very hardest things to deal with. Kablooie Sep 2020 #37

Virtual hugs to you in this difficult time. We are here for you. niyad Sep 2020 #85

Oh I am so heartbroken for you. flying_wahini Sep 2020 #38

Understood. My condolences to you relayerbob Sep 2020 #39

So very sorry for your loss. niyad Sep 2020 #86

Thank you relayerbob Sep 2020 #97

Oh dear Soph, nocoincidences Sep 2020 #40

Yep. You have to take care of yourself. calimary Sep 2020 #94

Sending love and strength. NurseJackie Sep 2020 #41

All I can offer ... marble falls Sep 2020 #42

I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. NoRoadUntravelled Sep 2020 #43

Just remember he didn't leave because he wanted to. It was his time. judesedit Sep 2020 #44

Dear Soph Lonestarblue Sep 2020 #45

I can only wish you peace world wide wally Sep 2020 #46

I am so sorry, Soph0571, that you've suffered such a terrible loss pnwmom Sep 2020 #47

I don't have the words, Soph... Aristus Sep 2020 #48

I'm so sorry, Soph. AirmensMom Sep 2020 #49

Get through it however you can, Soph. n/t TygrBright Sep 2020 #50

It's a coping mechanism. Been there, done that recently. flamin lib Sep 2020 #51

I am so sorry for your loss, and glad that you were able to climb out of that bottle. We are happy niyad Sep 2020 #87

I would be broken ornotna Sep 2020 #52

Hugs Laha Sep 2020 #54

So very sorry, Soph gademocrat7 Sep 2020 #55

I'm so sorry you're going through this. SunSeeker Sep 2020 #56

I cried when I read your post earlier today. 70sEraVet Sep 2020 #57

Anger is a part of it N3w0rld Sep 2020 #58

I'm so very sorry. cate94 Sep 2020 #59

OMG Soph0571, I am so sorry. pandr32 Sep 2020 #60

Dear Soph, I'm so, so sorry. Do what you need to do for as long as you need to -- fierywoman Sep 2020 #61

Oh Soph I'm so sorry. Tender hopper Sep 2020 #62

Your plight hurts my heart. BobTheSubgenius Sep 2020 #63

I am so sorry. area51 Sep 2020 #64

3 things Botany Sep 2020 #65

I am so sorry. Mickju Sep 2020 #66

Sometimes we just need a little or maybe a lot of soothing relief from this world. efhmc Sep 2020 #67

Prayers to you Soph FakeNoose Sep 2020 #68

To lose the love of your life is one of the saddest mnhtnbb Sep 2020 #69

More good advice. Lots of love here for you, Soph. calimary Sep 2020 #95

So sorry, Soph 💗💗💗 SheltieLover Sep 2020 #70

Yes bucolic_frolic Sep 2020 #71

So sorry lonely bird Sep 2020 #72

Oh Soph, I am so sorry! How heartbreaking. smirkymonkey Sep 2020 #73

I am so sorry jcboon Sep 2020 #74

Soph, I'm really sorry. I'd be right where you are if it was me and the love of my life. BComplex Sep 2020 #75

Sorry for your loss ribrepin Sep 2020 #76

So sorry for your loss. Myrddin Sep 2020 #77

I'm so sorry you're hurting. Cyber hugs LittleGirl Sep 2020 #78

I am so sorry! Duppers Sep 2020 #79

I am so sorry KT2000 Sep 2020 #80

I'm so sorry. Don't try to drink away the pain. CousinIT Sep 2020 #81

Sorry to hear... BlueJac Sep 2020 #82

So so sad HAB911 Sep 2020 #83

Virtual hugs to you, dear Soph. It is okay to be pissed, in both senses. I cannot imagine your pain niyad Sep 2020 #84

I'm so sorry to hear this. JohnnyLib2 Sep 2020 #88

Oh, Soph, please lean on a friend. Ilsa Sep 2020 #89

Soph, your post has brought me to tears! LaMouffette Sep 2020 #90

In a little over 3 weeks DarleenMB Sep 2020 #91

I'm so sorry for your loss.. mountain grammy Sep 2020 #92

You've earned a drink or 2......or more. cry baby Sep 2020 #96

I am so very sorry...my heart aches for you gopiscrap Sep 2020 #98

Oh, Soph. I am so, so sorry. crickets Sep 2020 #99

I'm sorry, Soph. You have every reason to be pissed.💔 GentryDixon Sep 2020 #100

Please take care of yourself Larissa Sep 2020 #101

Be pissed mercuryblues Sep 2020 #102

Thinking of you in this difficult time, Soph. Niagara Sep 2020 #103

Trust me on this one, Soph. WinstonSmith4740 Sep 2020 #104

The anger is normal. I know. My son was 24 and my husband had been at my side 54 years. appleannie1 Sep 2020 #105

Not only is it normal, soldierant Sep 2020 #106

Exactly. It has been since 1988 that my son died. appleannie1 Sep 2020 #109

And we are here for that. soldierant Sep 2020 #110

So sorry. Joinfortmill Sep 2020 #107

I am sorry for your loss... Moostache Sep 2020 #108