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In reply to the discussion: Monday Morning Mom-A-Thon. Post something about your mom. [View all]HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)32. I envy those of you who have good memories of your mother
If I thought hard, I could probably come up with a few pleasant memories, but since I never had a good relationship with mine, what stands out are the not-so-good memories. Her sisters confirmed to me that my mother's avowed method of raising children was "never compliment them because it makes them complacent." Let that sink in -- never, not one, compliment from your mother. I've tried to do better with my daughter -- compliments, "I-love-you's", approval. I know what it's like to not have those.
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Shortly before MiddleFingerMomMom faded away into the incommunicado endstage of Alzheimer's...
MiddleFingerMom
Jul 2012
#12
Sam Cooke asked my Mom out on a date. but, she couldn't go because she had to work.
Tuesday Afternoon
Jul 2012
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