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56. My wife passed away from

Tue Jun 1, 2021, 09:26 PM

Jun 2021

liver disease. She was odd in the way her disease affected her.

She would/could clean up to meet a potential someone. She was Cherokee, and a beauty! She was working at two horse farms and teaching dressage. Tan, in great shape with a healthy outlook on life. My knees melted when I first met her! That soon turned into hell when she started drinking.

Her mother told me after her passing that she would do this after getting comfortable in a relationship. I felt like a heel when all this happened, but I FEEL like I keep it between the ditches.

It fucks with me still!

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I Haven't had a drink for 4 months now [View all] LSFL May 2021 OP

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