Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

The DU Lounge

kayakjohnny

(5,235 posts)

34. Now what to do with that big 2861.5 miles between us.

Reply to lunatica (Reply #30)

Fri Aug 17, 2012, 08:42 PM

Aug 2012

Oh well... details, details.

Edit history

Please sign in to view edit histories.

Recommendations

0 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

40 replies

= new reply since forum marked as read

Highlight:

This question if for the women of DU. What qualities are REALLY important in a guy? [View all] Denninmi Aug 2012 OP

I would say, honesty first. CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2012 #1

Miss Peggy! Xipe Totec Aug 2012 #13

Post removed Post removed Aug 2012 #19

My husband's qualities: kindness, sense of humor, intelligence Arugula Latte Aug 2012 #2

Liberal, intelligent, a good talker and listener lunatica Aug 2012 #3

Are you doing anything tomorrow night? kayakjohnny Aug 2012 #28

Sure! lunatica Aug 2012 #30

Now what to do with that big 2861.5 miles between us. kayakjohnny Aug 2012 #34

Don't mind me, I'm just lurking. Scuba Aug 2012 #4

Exactly what Peggy said....and has. Dystopian Aug 2012 #5

re: little black book OriginalGeek Aug 2012 #9

Sweet... Dystopian Aug 2012 #23

All the good ones are taken lunatica Aug 2012 #31

Real, liberal, intelligent, sense of humor LiberalEsto Aug 2012 #6

At my age I'd be happy with someone with a pulse The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2012 #7

Ah, Velveteen whathehell Aug 2012 #20

This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2012 #8

I forget HeiressofBickworth Aug 2012 #10

Interesting question solara Aug 2012 #11

You have an actual list? HappyMe Aug 2012 #14

Haha solara Aug 2012 #18

My deal breaker is if you're one of my ex husbands lunatica Aug 2012 #32

Sense of humor, sweet, HappyMe Aug 2012 #12

A good sense of humor and intelligence susanr516 Aug 2012 #15

I got tired of detailing my perfect guy and asked for my knight with shining armor NV Whino Aug 2012 #16

He has to be able to put up with my shit. nolabear Aug 2012 #17

I like that answer, lol. whathehell Aug 2012 #25

What about the ability to change firmly held opinions on a moments notice? Kablooie Aug 2012 #21

I'm not a woman, but I know my wife likes the, um, you know, um, well, the, hmm... HopeHoops Aug 2012 #22

i can not abide by stinginess fizzgig Aug 2012 #24

Me either...It's a complete turnoff. whathehell Aug 2012 #27

i figure if character, strong moral compass, honesty, .... i can work with anything else. seabeyond Aug 2012 #26

Allows Women Freedom of Choice... grilled onions Aug 2012 #29

As a veteran i know what women really need: Size RobertEarl Aug 2012 #33

bathe daily, nice shoes, nice watch, nice smile blueamy66 Aug 2012 #35

Deal breakers: lying, cheating, bullying, or hate of any kind. LWolf Aug 2012 #36

An open-mind, a warm heart, a good sense of humor onestepforward Aug 2012 #37

Compassion, sense of humor, intelligence. blue neen Aug 2012 #38

Non-negotiable demands and turn-offs Lydia Leftcoast Aug 2012 #39

Kindness, compassion, intelligence, integrity... decent taste in movies and music and what not. :) redqueen Aug 2012 #40