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Drum

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12. I'm sorry you're feeling down...
Mon Jul 10, 2023, 06:29 PM
Jul 2023


Here’s “At Seventeen,” by Janis Ian.



I learned the truth at seventeen
That love was meant for beauty queens
And high school girls with clear-skinned smiles
Who married young and then retired

The valentines I never knew
The Friday night charades of youth
Were spent on one more beautiful
At seventeen I learned the truth

And those of us with ravaged faces
Lacking in the social graces
Desperately remained at home
Inventing lovers on the phone

Who called to say, "Come dance with me"
And murmured vague obscenities
It isn't all it seems
At seventeen

A brown eyed girl in hand-me-downs
Whose name I never could pronounce
Said, "Pity, please, the ones who serve
They only get what they deserve"

And the rich-relationed hometown queen
Marries into what she needs
With a guarantee of company
And haven for the elderly

Remember those who win the game
Lose the love they sought to gain
In debentures of quality
And dubious integrity

Their small-town eyes will gape at you
In dull surprise when payment due
Exceeds accounts received
At seventeen

To those of us who knew the pain
Of valentines that never came
And those whose names were never called
When choosing sides for basketball

It was long ago and far away
The world was younger than today
When dreams were all they gave for free
To ugly duckling girls like me

We all play the game, and when we dare
To cheat ourselves at solitaire
Inventing lovers on the phone
Repenting other lives unknown

They call and say, "Come dance with me"
And murmur vague obscenities
At ugly girls like me
At seventeen


Background info at: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/At_Seventeen

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Sad Songs Say So Much [View all] Coventina Jul 2023 OP
Coventina, I am so sorry you are feeling sadness within your heart. My song is Fire and Rain-James debm55 Jul 2023 #1
Aw! Thanks! Coventina Jul 2023 #2
Smithereens: Blues Before and After Coventina Jul 2023 #3
Yes! thatcrowwoman Jul 2023 #30
What could be sadder than Sinead singing "Nothing Compares"? The Unmitigated Gall Jul 2023 #4
mine is also Willie Skittles Jul 2023 #5
✔️✔️ blm Jul 2023 #15
RevHo covering Johnny Cash: Folsom Prison Blues Coventina Jul 2023 #6
I was certain that I was going to open this thread True Dough Jul 2023 #7
Not sure this EXACTLY fits... ret5hd Jul 2023 #8
John Gorka Easterncedar Jul 2023 #9
Bonnie Raitt Easterncedar Jul 2023 #10
Michael Bolton: Back on my feet again. n/t Paper Roses Jul 2023 #11
I'm sorry you're feeling down... Drum Jul 2023 #12
✔️✔️ blm Jul 2023 #14
One of the most poignant song ever. 3catwoman3 Jul 2023 #32
Million Years Ago blm Jul 2023 #13
Johnny Cash: Home of the Blues Coventina Jul 2023 #16
Marvin Gaye: Inner City Blues Coventina Jul 2023 #17
Social Distortion: Machine Gun Blues Coventina Jul 2023 #18
Moby: Natural Blues Coventina Jul 2023 #19
Eleanor Rigby - The Beatles IcyPeas Jul 2023 #20
Song to the Siren - This Mortal Coil ft. Elizabeth Fraser IcyPeas Jul 2023 #21
Muddy Waters: Train Fare Home Blues Coventina Jul 2023 #22
What becomes of the broken hearted FuzzyRabbit Jul 2023 #23
Paul Simon usually does it for me... Wounded Bear Jul 2023 #24
Sarah McLachlan: Adia Coventina Jul 2023 #25
Bill Withers: Ain't No Sunshine Coventina Jul 2023 #26
Hope these help, Coventina. thatcrowwoman Jul 2023 #27
Hauntingly sad thatcrowwoman Jul 2023 #28
XTC: All of a Sudden (It's Too Late) Coventina Jul 2023 #29
Hope this helps! The Unmitigated Gall Jul 2023 #31
Not sure if sad, but really emotional. kwolf68 Jul 2023 #33
Fast Car - Tracy Chapman IcyPeas Jul 2023 #34
Coventina......... Upthevibe Jul 2023 #35
Lord Huron - The Night We Met IcyPeas Jul 2023 #36
Father John Misty - Goodbye Mr. Blue IcyPeas Jul 2023 #37
Shake Sugaree - Written by Elizabeth Cotten - Sung by Brenda Evans (her granddaughter?) Brother Buzz Jul 2023 #38
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