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riderinthestorm

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Wed Sep 12, 2012, 11:56 AM Sep 2012

Its my daughter's 16th birthday next week. Need gift suggestions.... [View all]

She's a wild one and its been a rough couple of years. I don't usually go with very extravagant gifts at our house. That said, she's been clean and sober for 10 months now (finished rehab in December just before Christmas).

She's already getting our old Honda to drive (1999, 250k miles) until it drops. But that's actually more beneficial to me since I won't have to drive her everywhere.

She wants two or three more ear piercings. I was thinking of telling my mom to get her a gift card to Claire's. She's not trustworthy enough yet to receive cash imho

Another thing she loves is music. She listens to her Ipod all the time. I was thinking of one of those Ipod docking stations but again, I'm not the extravagant type so I was thinking of this one which looked pretty cool:
http://www.amazon.com/Coby-CSMP175-Vitruvian-Speaker-System/dp/B003AIL2EM

Her older sister's getting her a charm bracelet with a charm for each theater production she's been in (great idea that she can keep forever, and add onto) so now I'm doubting myself on getting her the docking station.

Should I be thinking of something more "momentous"? I have no idea what my husband's going to get her - we usually come up with our own ideas but I'm open to more expensive gift ideas that could be from both of us. I'm pretty sure I could knock her socks off with concert tix but I'm worried about her in that kind of heavy pressure party scene (I'm ashamed to admit, I just can't read her on how firm she is in her sobriety).

The lounge usually has such terrific suggestions I thought I'd throw this out there and see if anything sounds good. I think the only thing that I would veer away from would be clothes since at 16 years old, girls have their own very DEFINITE tastes.

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Gift Card to iTunes or for Amazon MP3s. MicaelS Sep 2012 #1
I had no idea about that. Thanks for the heads up on info I really needed nt riderinthestorm Sep 2012 #5
That was my first thought too.... AnneD Sep 2012 #15
Something to allow her to play her iPod on her car radio? cyberswede Sep 2012 #2
Now THAT'S genius! I like it! riderinthestorm Sep 2012 #6
I've tried a few of those and haven't found one that works very well Major Nikon Sep 2012 #24
I'd get any additional piercings done at a tattoo parlor, not Claire's, although your daughter could gkhouston Sep 2012 #3
I told her that when she said she wanted to get her ear cartilage done riderinthestorm Sep 2012 #8
iTunes gift card. Times have changed. HopeHoops Sep 2012 #4
Oh that's included with ANY gift!! This girl loves to rock along with anything!! riderinthestorm Sep 2012 #9
My middle daughter (19 now) has known classic rock better than ME for at least five years. HopeHoops Sep 2012 #13
They usually .... AnneD Sep 2012 #16
She was 16 when she did the show. The DJ was really cool about it. Michael Anthony Smith, WRVV. HopeHoops Sep 2012 #18
A orphaned baby elephant. cbayer Sep 2012 #7
Seriously! That's GOT to be my husband's gift to her. I LOVE this! riderinthestorm Sep 2012 #10
I visited this place last year and it was one of the most inspiring places I have ever been. cbayer Sep 2012 #12
Or ... AnneD Sep 2012 #17
Father of 2 daughters says Smickey Sep 2012 #11
Outward Bound offers amazing trips. grntuscarora Sep 2012 #22
Time, with you. My Mom always........... mrmpa Sep 2012 #14
the piercings - and go with her and get one/some for yourself Kali Sep 2012 #19
You said she's been in theater productions, why not a ticket to a madmom Sep 2012 #20
I agree with the posters... Wait Wut Sep 2012 #21
Take a page from my parents--I got a steel slide rule for my 16th! lastlib Sep 2012 #23
I always meant to get back to this thread, it kept getting away from me. Here's what I got for her riderinthestorm Jan 2013 #25
Message auto-removed rachil Feb 2013 #26
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