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In reply to the discussion: Am I a shit? Or what would you do? In the summer of 2023, my sister told us she had uterine cancer. We drove up to [View all]debm55
(54,833 posts)that my father and myself shared a Jewish nose. this in front of my dad't open casket. My sister told every she has cancer. I got the rage from my mom to remove the rosary from my father's hands. Relatives still believe my sister and mother;s crap. I called Elder care on my dad. I was his favorite if you want to call it that. But I placed a heart shaped card in the coffin. My and Diane were furious. He called me his Valentine. I usually send money and cards. but the 68 years of being sexually, physically and mentally have taken a toll.Maybe I am a nasty person. But I just don't know because through all the shit that was done to me, I honored my family. I don't know if it is healthy or not. As far as relatives , they only know what they are told.