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dawg

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35. I can already tell you're going to be okay.

Reply to alarimer (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 09:24 PM

Oct 2012

You're already thinking about the future and making plans. You have great ideas about how to meet new people and whenever you feel ready you will be able to put those plans into action.

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How can he be with someone else already? [View all] alarimer Oct 2012 OP

its the way of the world people move on loli phabay Oct 2012 #1

If he can move on so quickly, it must mean I meant nothing to him. alarimer Oct 2012 #2

hate to say it but he may have cared for you at one time but hes moved on loli phabay Oct 2012 #3

Very good advice. Bucky Oct 2012 #29

If crying gets you through the day then cry lunatica Oct 2012 #4

+1 geardaddy Oct 2012 #5

Great advice! Bucky Oct 2012 #28

The fact is that some people WON'T LWolf Oct 2012 #19

I can't imagine that. alarimer Oct 2012 #21

I'm a loner, myself. LWolf Oct 2012 #36

First thing you have to do is come to realize that you are... lastlib Oct 2012 #26

I know you don't want to hear this-- kalli007 Oct 2012 #6

Ouch. alarimer Oct 2012 #22

Well, unless you're 28 or younger, I'm not 20 years your senior KamaAina Oct 2012 #7

No, we're pretty close then. alarimer Oct 2012 #9

Well, then... KamaAina Oct 2012 #16

Been in your position as well Alleycat Oct 2012 #8

Thanks alarimer Oct 2012 #10

Volunteer at the local Democratic Party Headquarters. You might meet some real nice people Fla Dem Oct 2012 #25

May I suggest you visit, hopefully register at survivinginfidelity.com. You'll thank me later. Bigleaf Oct 2012 #11

That's not quite the situation alarimer Oct 2012 #12

Fuck 'em. You don't need him. Taverner Oct 2012 #13

Hi Alarimer darkangel218 Oct 2012 #14

Blindsided is the right word, I think. alarimer Oct 2012 #15

Stay busy..... zabet Oct 2012 #17

Yes, that's true. alarimer Oct 2012 #18

Does she have emotional issues? Firebirds01 Oct 2012 #20

I don't know anything about her. alarimer Oct 2012 #23

I'm bookmarking that site for future reference alarimer Oct 2012 #24

Ouch! Man, that sucks. Bucky Oct 2012 #27

I've done the online thing before alarimer Oct 2012 #30

MeetUps rock. When I was chick trawling, I found much better company there than OKCupid Bucky Oct 2012 #31

Mourn, grieve, cry, and most important of all, learn to be alone, and be OK with it. Flaxbee Oct 2012 #32

I wouldn't think much on it. It is just a rebound fling. Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2012 #33

Very good advice. alarimer Oct 2012 #34

I can already tell you're going to be okay. dawg Oct 2012 #35

Yes, today was a good day. alarimer Oct 2012 #37

Link to a dumb joke ... JustABozoOnThisBus Oct 2012 #38

I saw that. alarimer Oct 2012 #39

Challenge yourself with your favorite lonely person songs! RedCloud Oct 2012 #40

I did make a playlist that I haven't actually listened to. alarimer Oct 2012 #41