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Aristus

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Tue Jul 15, 2025, 10:11 AM Jul 2025

I received an odd, and rather moving, compliment from my Medical Assistant yesterday. [View all]

We were doing an after-action review at the end of a very long, difficult day. We were commiserating over the habits of a certain kind of patient who tells the MA what they're here for (a single, simple problem), but, once the provider is in the exam room, pulls out a list of fifteen items, all of which they want evaluated in a single clinic visit.

My MA told me how "the patient will tell me one thing, and then you get into the room, and they see that soft, beautiful, caring face, and they add all kinds of things onto the visit!"

I pulled a bit of a face and muttered "...soft?...beautiful?..." and the rest of the team laughed. But I wasn't laughing inside. It was a very sweet thing to say. Just the kind of thing to lighten up what had been a very hard day.

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Now we need a picture of that face. 🤭 1WorldHope Jul 2025 #1
Soft and caring it may be. Aristus Jul 2025 #3
I agree that the wording is a bit odd, but most definitely a compliment. 3catwoman3 Jul 2025 #2
Yeah, I get "You should have lead with that" visits all the time. Had one last week, in fact. Aristus Jul 2025 #4
The other thing that happens a lot in pediatrics is... 3catwoman3 Jul 2025 #5
Just one of many reasons why I don't see pediatric patients anymore. Aristus Jul 2025 #6
LOL @ wall-crawlers! ShazzieB Jul 2025 #12
Back when I was still seeing pediatric patients, Aristus Jul 2025 #14
I really don't understand some parents. ShazzieB Jul 2025 #17
Soundtrack for that moment.. True Dough Jul 2025 #7
That was a sweet thing for the MA to say. hamsterjill Jul 2025 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author mitch96 Jul 2025 #9
I have never seen you, but markie Jul 2025 #10
As shown: Aristus Jul 2025 #11
What is inside the true heart of a person Martin Eden Jul 2025 #13
Interesting wendyb-NC Jul 2025 #15
May I say something here? Diamond_Dog Jul 2025 #16
And this happens too womanofthehills Jul 2025 #18
A skin lesion is something I always take the extra few seconds for. Aristus Jul 2025 #19
that's a great compliment! Skittles Jul 2025 #20
If an experienced surgical nurse is complementing you, Aristus Jul 2025 #21
takes a lot to flatter me Skittles Jul 2025 #22
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