There is something that none of us should overlook, especially me

[NJCher]

18. There is a form of grief therapy

That is highly effective in these situations. Unfortunately the therapist has to be certified by the American Psychological Association and they might not be available in remote areas of the country.

It is 70% effective in one visit.

It was originated by a psychologist at a veteran’s hospital and was even more effective than 70% with vets who had PTSD and other problems resulting from death of a colleague in battle.

The list of certified therapists is in the back of this book the psychologist wrote. Later today I will look up the title and add it to my post. Everyone facing this situation should record the title and keep it in a safe place, just in case.