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OldBaldy1701E

(11,286 posts)
41. We moved too many times to say that about a single structure.
Mon Sep 22, 2025, 11:03 AM
Sep 2025

However, I did briefly visit my hometown back in 2023.

It is a shadow of what it was (which was not that much, to be honest). There are collapsing houses along Main Street. The center of town is all but dead. Over half of the storefronts are empty. There is despair and surrender everywhere I looked.

Half of the houses I was raised in are either gone or were remodeled and look nothing like they did.

I did not stay long. Too painful. Too much anger at being correct about the area and its desire to remain in the long forgotten past. Too upsetting to see what was a halfway decent town trying desperately to self-implode rather than accept progress.

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Drove by my family's farm in 2023. My parents sold it in 1970. sinkingfeeling Sep 2025 #1
A couple of weeks ago? I might have posted about it... LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #2
That's right True Dough Sep 2025 #3
One of them has. LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #5
So you look something like this? True Dough Sep 2025 #7
No, the only hair I have is on the tip of my nose... LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #9
So, downstairs, that would be True Dough Sep 2025 #10
Hmmm...I'd say it's more like a "sprout". LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #11
Timely question EverHopeful Sep 2025 #4
I didn't ask to go inside either True Dough Sep 2025 #8
I drive through my childhood neighborhood every Emile Sep 2025 #6
I think George Carlin suggested going through on your knees Marthe48 Sep 2025 #12
got to go in after my mom's funeral in 2000. mopinko Sep 2025 #13
I went in 2014, The house was gone. The neighborhood was so run down. debm55 Sep 2025 #14
mine shd b on the national register, if u ask me. mopinko Sep 2025 #17
Beautiful home. debm55 Sep 2025 #18
it's amazing. it's small, but so well designed. she used to have huuuuge parties there. mopinko Sep 2025 #19
Only via Google earth. mwmisses4289 Sep 2025 #15
About ten years ago for final estate matters. GreenWave Sep 2025 #16
Every place I lived as a kid has gentrified. hunter Sep 2025 #20
My parents still live in my childhood Luciferous Sep 2025 #21
The house? Decades ago. (And it's only about 3 or 4 miles from where I've lived for the last 18 years.) Iggo Sep 2025 #22
Yes. About 12 years ago I was mnhtnbb Sep 2025 #23
My grandparent's house in Los Angeles suffered a similar transformation... hunter Sep 2025 #43
My oldest son was born in 1986 at Cedars Sinai in L. A. mnhtnbb Sep 2025 #44
It's crazy. My parent's first house was like that, a couple of blocks from the beach. hunter Sep 2025 #46
hard to say for a GI brat Skittles Sep 2025 #24
I didn't have one home or neighbohood when I grew up LogDog75 Sep 2025 #25
I've been by a few times since I'm still in the same area. Ocelot II Sep 2025 #26
A couple of months ago, I drove through the complex I lived in from age 10 to 15. MIButterfly Sep 2025 #27
Well, growing up in an Army family we moved a lot. Mom and Dad did have a house in El Paso sdfernando Sep 2025 #28
Haven't been in my childhood home or property since 1974 and it is only 100 yards away. nt doc03 Sep 2025 #29
My mom sold the house in 1985, and passed away in 1988. rsdsharp Sep 2025 #30
My childhood home is a victim of katrina TexLaProgressive Sep 2025 #31
Yes! Americanme Sep 2025 #32
I found a video tour of one of my childhood homes a few years ago. subterranean Sep 2025 #33
1983, I think mike_c Sep 2025 #34
About 35 years ago, before moving to Maryland Wicked Blue Sep 2025 #35
2001 Jilly_in_VA Sep 2025 #36
I've Driven By The House... ProfessorGAC Sep 2025 #37
It's still there, but... LudwigPastorius Sep 2025 #38
Burned and bulldozed to grow more corn and soybeans........iowa IA8IT Sep 2025 #39
I moved around too many times nitpicked Sep 2025 #40
We moved too many times to say that about a single structure. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2025 #41
2007, when my grandfather died. Aristus Sep 2025 #42
How many siblings, Aristus? True Dough Sep 2025 #48
Older sister, younger brother. Aristus Sep 2025 #53
My parents sold the house I first lived in when I was 9. Harker Sep 2025 #45
Wonderful interlude, Harker True Dough Sep 2025 #47
I hope so, too, TD. Harker Sep 2025 #49
January? Kali Sep 2025 #50
My childhood home burned down when I was in college. CanonRay Sep 2025 #51
Eight years ago Justice Brandeis Sep 2025 #52
1998 helped my parents get rid of stuff. Woodwizard Sep 2025 #54
Never. There were way too many WhiteTara Sep 2025 #55
Yes and the people who bought it Tree Lady Sep 2025 #56
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