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11. This is interesting to me Marthe...

Thu Sep 25, 2025, 10:28 AM

Sep 2025

My brother died about 4 years ago from Covid.

I think I suppressed my grief, and lately, I have been thinking about him several times a day. Missing him.

I've also been grieving hard for everyone that I've lost recently...much more so than usual.

I've been unnaturally obsessed with the thought "I'm going to see them all again some day", even though that is not what I actually believe will happen.

While all of this is going on, I also have moments of tremendous positivity. A feeling of lightness in spite of the grief.

Thank you for your response.

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I dreamed that I died. [View all] LuckyCharms Sep 2025 OP

It's Trump's fault (n/t) PJMcK Sep 2025 #1

Yeah, I was going to type LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #2

I can help NJCher Sep 2025 #3

Thank you, Cher. LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #4

I'm just glad you didn't die! CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2025 #5

!! LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #7

Thanks, and Will do! CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2025 #33

You feel you've made a major mistake, and discovered it too late. marble falls Sep 2025 #6

Vivid dream Marthe48 Sep 2025 #8

This is interesting to me Marthe... LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #11

Saw this after I posted another reply to your OP. highplainsdem Sep 2025 #17

This is tremendous. Thank you for this reply. LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #23

It took a long time but I came to terms with my loss Marthe48 Sep 2025 #24

Sometimes a death dream is not about an actual death, but a change in your life... Wounded Bear Sep 2025 #9

This looks like two separate dreams in one. Irish_Dem Sep 2025 #10

I was hoping you'd offer an opinion Marthe48 Sep 2025 #14

Yes. The entire dream is a projection of the dreamer. Irish_Dem Sep 2025 #19

Let's see... LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #16

Just read this, LC. See my reply 17 above, which mentions near-death experiences, which your highplainsdem Sep 2025 #20

Thank you, highplainsdem. LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #22

My Mom had a near death experience Marthe48 Sep 2025 #25

. LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #26

Thanks. Irish_Dem Sep 2025 #43

Very insightful and it makes sense. Thank you very much. LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #44

Glad to do it. Irish_Dem Sep 2025 #45

LuckyCharms, it isn't at all surprising to have random nightmares with the anxiety we're all feeling. Don't fret highplainsdem Sep 2025 #12

Did your dangling legs True Dough Sep 2025 #13

Not enough hair. n/t LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #18

That is NOT something to see right before breakfast. Dem2theMax Sep 2025 #34

Ha ha! True Dough Sep 2025 #36

Too late! Dem2theMax Sep 2025 #39

I did too LuckyCharms. GreenWave Sep 2025 #15

I'm sorry. It's upsetting...but you'll be ok. LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #21

Or sleep apnea? 1WorldHope Sep 2025 #29

You are dead, sorry to say. unblock Sep 2025 #27

I'll buy you a beer for this comment. LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #30

a couple of teetotalers, yeah, we'll really liven up the bar unblock Sep 2025 #41

It's about you missing the Rapture Bernardo de La Paz Sep 2025 #28

Jesus Christ! Maybe I WAS raptured and don't know it yet! LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #32

Well, then you are in DU, which is heaven, is it not? Bernardo de La Paz Sep 2025 #38

The dream could have been triggered by all the nonsense about the Rapture ... Donkees Sep 2025 #31

Could have been triggered by dweller Sep 2025 #35

Which would be related to the Dreams of a Rarebit Fiend. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Sep 2025 #40

I can't add anything to Lucky's dream, but I'm sure glad you posted it. Dem2theMax Sep 2025 #37

I didn't forget NJCher Sep 2025 #42

You fear a lack of support (the ladder) is going to kill you. LudwigPastorius Sep 2025 #46