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LuckyCharms

(21,506 posts)
14. We had to put both of our previous Shelties down.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:25 PM
6 hrs ago

They lived to 14 and 15 respectively.

We of course were there with them.

I was a mess afterward, and I asked the vet "Why is this affecting me more than a human death"?

Her reply: Because they ask nothing of us, don't inherently feel a drive to want anything from us, but they are entirely dependent on us. So we FEEL like we are letting them down when this time comes, but in actuality, you are doing the kindest thing for them.

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What a beautiful dog! MIButterfly 7 hrs ago #1
Jonah! LuckyCharms 6 hrs ago #5
He is gorgeous! Laffy Kat 7 hrs ago #2
He's so gentle... LuckyCharms 6 hrs ago #11
Awwww. Beautiful, sweet baby! CousinIT 7 hrs ago #3
We had to put both of our previous Shelties down. LuckyCharms 6 hrs ago #14
You are giving him the best life possible. quaint 6 hrs ago #4
I think our pets deserve the very best... LuckyCharms 6 hrs ago #12
* Gives Jonah a generous scritch or two * Niagara 6 hrs ago #6
He would like you better than me... LuckyCharms 6 hrs ago #7
I am so sorry Grim Chieftain 6 hrs ago #8
And the same good wishes to you and your wonderful dogs... LuckyCharms 6 hrs ago #9
Nobody can tell me that animals don't have souls, either. Diamond_Dog 6 hrs ago #10
I couldn't agree more about animals having souls. 1WorldHope 5 hrs ago #20
What a sweetie... 2naSalit 6 hrs ago #13
Pure Love InstantGratification 6 hrs ago #15
Sweet dog - your guardian angel or spirit guide. waterwatcher123 5 hrs ago #16
So beautiful! Hope22 5 hrs ago #17
Every day is a good day Wild blueberry 5 hrs ago #18
what a sweetheart! mwmisses4289 5 hrs ago #19
My dog has lived with this for over 3 years.. Coachvo 4 hrs ago #21
I'm going to look into this! LuckyCharms 4 hrs ago #23
❤️ littlemissmartypants 4 hrs ago #22
Goodness, he is beautiful! I really hope he can stay around for a long while. LoisB 4 hrs ago #24
Of course they have souls - they love. flashman13 4 hrs ago #25
❤️ plus one dog boop Donkees 4 hrs ago #26
I'm 67 years old... LuckyCharms 4 hrs ago #28
Dogs keep us sane :) Donkees 4 hrs ago #29
He's beautiful! red dog 1 4 hrs ago #27
Jonah is a beautiful dog. debm55 4 hrs ago #30
Aw, he's so cute wendyb-NC 4 hrs ago #31
Tell the healing spirits to send their healing energy to its bladder.... Karadeniz 1 min ago #32
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