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niyad

(132,221 posts)
69. I think you are correct about his fiascos, although they provided me
Wed Mar 25, 2026, 12:17 AM
16 hrs ago

a great deal of amusement. Yes, I am that warped!

Agree about the rest as well. It is one thing when a person cannot read, but different when they simply do not. I will always remember a friend's son, who had severe dyslexia, but worked very hard to overcome it. He called me one day when he was about 25, all excited because he had just finished reading an entire novel, and loved it. I knew the novel, so we spent time discussing it, and I was able to suggest others he might likee. He told me he felt like he had entered a whole new world. Today he is a paramedic. I remember a saying (Twain?) "To the person who does not (cannot?) read, the world is a closed book." I was so privileged to see the world open up for my friend's son.

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Views enid602 22 hrs ago #1
You better get busy then. 🤓😀❤️ littlemissmartypants 20 hrs ago #30
I had a woman stay with me for a couple of months because she was in hard times. She had so much stuff Deuxcents 22 hrs ago #2
OH MY GOD/DESS!! This hit me in the gut!!! Coventina 20 hrs ago #36
Now, this has got me 😢 I can understand your original post better. Deuxcents 20 hrs ago #51
Such generational trauma runs in the family. Coventina 20 hrs ago #52
Sad what happens to little children and the adults don't realize or say..they'll get over it 😔 Deuxcents 19 hrs ago #54
I'm not a minimalist and I love my treasures Niagara 22 hrs ago #3
I figure I gave up a SECURE job in broadcasting to go home and be a full time mom. calimary 22 hrs ago #4
Right on! StarryNite 22 hrs ago #5
Minimalism jworks OK for people who go to work , come home Warpy 22 hrs ago #6
After volunteering for years with arts and children's causes... littlemissmartypants 20 hrs ago #32
Hear, hear!! THANK YOU for saying this! EuterpeThelo 22 hrs ago #7
ding . this . AllaN01Bear 22 hrs ago #9
Keeper of the flame is a noble endeavor. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 20 hrs ago #35
Sun and Moon in Cancer here. I love everything you said!!! Coventina 20 hrs ago #38
its my stuff , leave me alone . and everything is allocated to another person via a will AllaN01Bear 22 hrs ago #8
I'm with you! mtngirl47 22 hrs ago #10
That's ME! Word for word BigmanPigman 21 hrs ago #11
I could not possibly agree more. Tomorrow (Good Lord willing and the creek don't rise), I am LoisB 21 hrs ago #12
I want to keep that which I care about The Madcap 21 hrs ago #13
Atta gurl! QueerDuck 21 hrs ago #14
Good for you ms.pamela 21 hrs ago #15
About china.... LisaM 21 hrs ago #16
Hells to the yes! EuterpeThelo 21 hrs ago #18
That's wonderful! I recently found my great-grandmother's butterchurn. I may even have a churning party! ❤️ littlemissmartypants 20 hrs ago #29
That should be fun. One of my friends is into making his own butter. niyad 20 hrs ago #53
With a hand churn? It takes a village. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 19 hrs ago #55
He's a big, tough guy! niyad 19 hrs ago #56
It takes hours and people usually have to take turns. littlemissmartypants 19 hrs ago #57
Actually, I think you are correct. All I know is that I am NOT volunteering niyad 19 hrs ago #58
Hahaha. Don't worry. I'll be glad to butter your bread. You wouldn't have to lift a finger. littlemissmartypants 19 hrs ago #59
And I would be happy to be there. I can bring goodies! niyad 19 hrs ago #60
Absolutely! We'll butter everything! 😀 littlemissmartypants 19 hrs ago #61
Pate, Brie, good baguettes, MUST have good butter! niyad 19 hrs ago #63
Absolutely! ❤️ littlemissmartypants 18 hrs ago #64
wonderful thought there. I hereby award a gold star ... -- best post -- stopdiggin 20 hrs ago #31
Really good post. Struggling with these issues as we type. Evolve Dammit 21 hrs ago #17
Right with you Dammit. nt Prairie_Seagull 21 hrs ago #21
Marie Kondo? Isn't she the one who said "Ideally, you should own fewer than thirty books"? Aristus 21 hrs ago #19
MORE!!! niyad 21 hrs ago #26
Years ago, I had a dear friend, whose dating life amused me no end. niyad 20 hrs ago #45
He lack of reading undoubtedly explains his numerous fiascos. Aristus 17 hrs ago #68
I think you are correct about his fiascos, although they provided me niyad 16 hrs ago #69
For one of our moves, we had 50 boxes of books. 3catwoman3 18 hrs ago #65
No scholar would take that seriously. Thirty REFERENCE books is not even a start. eppur_se_muova 15 hrs ago #70
Yeah. Right on. Fuck Marie Kondo. Who the hell does she think she is? FadedMullet 21 hrs ago #20
Who the hell is she??? niyad 21 hrs ago #27
You go!! Joinfortmill 21 hrs ago #22
Very righteous rant, Coventina. I can't agree more. littlemissmartypants 21 hrs ago #23
Fun fact: After Marie Kondo cluttered her house with a bunch of kids flvegan 21 hrs ago #24
You have every right to do what's best for you. hamsterjill 21 hrs ago #25
Whew! Glad we got THAT off of our chest! stopdiggin 21 hrs ago #28
Who can trust a woman that doesn't want more than a few books (that crazy Kondo lady) - TBF 20 hrs ago #33
I'll keep other people's books. But not without their consent. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 20 hrs ago #40
Darned straight. Enjoy it! Raven123 20 hrs ago #34
$160 a month for storage x 15 years BidenRocks 20 hrs ago #37
I am 100% against putting stuff in paid storage. Coventina 20 hrs ago #42
EBay? I think you'd be surprised if you advertised. The post office littlemissmartypants 20 hrs ago #44
Yes! I'm keeping my stuff too. OnionPatch 20 hrs ago #39
EXACTLY!!! niyad 20 hrs ago #43
In the past month, I have seen at least two dozen of these minimalist, niyad 20 hrs ago #41
Live your own life BeneteauBum 20 hrs ago #46
Marie Kondo can take a big dumpster and shove it where usonian 20 hrs ago #47
I saw a homeless guy last week riding his bicycle JoseBalow 20 hrs ago #48
Psychologists keep trying to label normal behaviors as disease delisen 20 hrs ago #49
I enjoy being a loner as my home is full of treasures that I can ...occupy littlemissmartypants 20 hrs ago #50
Art, music collections, JBTaurus83 19 hrs ago #62
I have thoroughly enjoyed this thread. 3catwoman3 18 hrs ago #66
💯% with you Figarosmom 17 hrs ago #67
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