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9. Holding you and Rich in love and light. Vibes for best possible outcome.

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Wed May 13, 2026, 11:21 PM

May 13

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I am sad and nervous. I went to the Breast Cancer Center this afternoon for my six month check up for a lump in my right [View all] debm55 May 13 OP

I won't let you fall into the fears. I have good feelings coming your way and nothing that hlthe2b May 13 #1

Thank you hlthe2b. For being here. Love, deb. debm55 May 13 #3

Hey, sweetie, the thing that I love most about DU is what one wise poster once said: calimary May 13 #2

thank you my dear calimary. Love, deb debm55 May 13 #4

Please believe me when I say don't fret..stay positive and that's good medicine, too. I have an idea of Deuxcents May 13 #5

Thank you for being my family, Deuxcents. debm55 May 14 #48

Deb please try to take a breath. Diamond_Dog May 13 #6

I'm gonna jump in here buzzycrumbhunger May 13 #7

Thank you, buzzycrumbhunger for your wise words. debm55 May 14 #59

Thank you, my dear Diamond_Dog. debm55 May 14 #49

Wishing you a positive outcome on your biopsy. Marie Marie May 13 #8

I will, Thank you, Marie Marie. debm55 May 14 #50

Holding you and Rich in love and light. Vibes for best possible outcome. niyad May 13 #9

Thank you for your kind words for Rich and me. niyad. debm55 May 14 #60

My mother had bilateral breast cancer lumps. She had lumpectomy, radiation, and then took tamoxifen. She did not die surfered May 13 #10

Thank you very much, my friend. debm55 May 14 #61

🙏 surfered May 14 #65

I'm sending you healing vibes and positive thoughts! Nt spooky3 May 13 #11

Thank you very much, spooky3. debm55 May 14 #62

I am sending you hugs and all the best energy to surround you! MLAA May 13 #12

Dear MLAA. sending hugs to you also. debm55 May 14 #63

... WestMichRad May 13 #13

Back at you WestMichRad. debm55 May 14 #64

Dear dear dearest Deb, You bring so much empathy, fun, joy and memory KitFox May 13 #14

Thank you my dear friend, KitFox,❤️ debm55 May 14 #66

Dear Deb.....May the next days land gently for you Ninga May 13 #15

Thank you, very much, Ninga. debm55 May 14 #67

Oh sweet Deb. I'm sending you hugs and healing vibes sueh May 13 #16

Thank you very much, sueh. ❤️ debm55 May 14 #71

Of course you are sad and nervous. It's a normal reaction, and you did the right thing by talking about it. hamsterjill May 13 #17

Thank you very much, my friend, for your kind words. debm55 May 14 #72

Dear deb....we got you irisblue May 14 #18

Thank you very much, irisblue. ❤️ debm55 May 14 #73

You have our affection and support dear debm55. alwaysinasnit May 14 #19

You are sweet my friend, alwaysinasnit. debm55 May 14 #74

My dog Diggory and I are sending you calm and peace..... ColoringFool May 14 #20

Hey, ColoringFool! calimary May 14 #23

Bless you , ColoringFool. ❤️ debm55 May 14 #75

Oh debm55 I'm so sorry Figarosmom May 14 #21

Thank you very much for your kind words, Figarosmom. I will try. debm55 May 14 #76

We're all going to be here with you Debbie, JMCKUSICK May 14 #22

Love you , John. Thank you for your post. debm55 May 14 #77

Oh Deb. summer_in_TX May 14 #24

Thank you very much, summer_in_TX. Rich and I appreciate your prayers❤️. debm55 May 14 #78

good wishes for a positive outcome dear debm55 msongs May 14 #25

Thank you my dear msongs. debm55 May 14 #97

Sending you love, hugs and healing thoughts deb. sheshe2 May 14 #26

Thank you my sweet sheshe2❤️ debm55 May 14 #98

Healing vibes to you stage left May 14 #27

Thank you for your warm thoughts. stage left.❤️ debm55 May 14 #99

I'm holding you in my heart dear person. Hope22 May 14 #28

Thank you very much for your warm post, Hope22.❤️ debm55 May 14 #100

One day at a time, dear Deb.. Permanut May 14 #29

Thank you for sharing with me. Permanut. debm55 May 14 #101

Waiting Is The Worst DET May 14 #30

Your very kind words have me in tears---happy tears. Thank you so much DET. Love, Deb. debm55 May 14 #102

I have sent my plea to The Universe for your good health. You will not be alone LoisB May 14 #31

Thank you my friend, LoisB. Love, deb. debm55 May 14 #103

Dear sweet, wonderful Deb MIButterfly May 14 #32

Thank you my dear MiButterfly. Love, deb.❤️ And--------- debm55 May 14 #106

I don't even know where to begin. murielm99 May 14 #33

Thank you so much, murielm99, Bless you❤️ debm55 May 15 #121

I hope for negative results and a positive outcome. Buddyzbuddy May 14 #34

Thank you very much, Buddyzbuddy debm55 May 15 #118

Sending hugs for you and Rich. Whatever the livetohike May 14 #35

Thank you very much, livetohhike.❤️ debm55 May 14 #38

You're strong. zanana1 May 14 #36

Thank you very much, zanana1 debm55 May 14 #37

I go in every year - TBF May 14 #39

I use to go every year. My maternal aunt and 2 cousins died from breast cancer. I go every 6 months. Thank you TBF with debm55 May 15 #119

Stay strong, debm66 - We're here for you. n/t TygrBright May 14 #40

Thank you very much for sharing that with me, TygrBright.❤️ debm55 May 15 #120

I have a sister-in-law who is a ten year survivor of Her2 breast cancer. NNadir May 14 #41

Thank you very much, NNadir. I can do it. debm55 May 15 #122

Wishing you all the best of life as you and your husband struggle together. I am so sorry for you. Fla Dem May 14 #42

Thank you very much, Fla Dem. debm55 May 14 #53

Please take care and stay strong. We are all here for you. Sending positive thoughts.❤️ lucca18 May 14 #43

Thank you very much, lucca18 debm55 May 14 #46

My best wishes Dear_Prudence May 14 #44

Thank you very much, Dear_Prudence. debm55 May 14 #45

Sending you love and peace.❤️ PittBlue May 14 #47

Thank you very much, PittBlue. We have BlueCross/ Blue Shield , Federal Employees. so it's AHN debm55 May 14 #51

For you debm55... pdxflyboy May 14 #52

Thank you very much, pdxflyboy. debm55 May 14 #54

Please take a moment and take a deep breath, Deb Niagara May 14 #55

Thank you very much for your kind words, Niagara. debm55 May 14 #57

Very Sorry to hear your news debm55. Many of my wife's family know they are at risk after BRCA test. IA8IT May 14 #56

Thank you very much for sharing with us, IA8IT. On my maternal side I had an aunt and two cousins die from breast debm55 May 14 #58

Hang in there! I know this must be scary for you. Ocelot II May 14 #68

Thank you very much, my friend Ocelot II. ❤️ debm55 May 14 #81

Deb, you have your husband, your doctors, and us at DU Polly Hennessey May 14 #69

Thank you my dear friend, Polly Hennessey. Love, deb. debm55 May 14 #96

Deb, you can lean on us ANY TIME.. some_of_us_are_sane May 14 #70

Thank you my friend , some_of_us_are_sane.Thank you for your love, support and prayers. debm55 May 14 #94

Glad we were here! Take care dear deb. You are in my thoughts tonight... CTyankee May 14 #79

Thank you very much, my dear, CTyankee.❤️ debm55 May 14 #82

... Delphinus May 14 #80

Love you. debm55 May 14 #84

I've been dealing with cancer for the last eight years, some days it's difficult to stay positive, I wish you the best. sop May 14 #83

Thank you dear sop. And I will keep you in my prayers tonight. Love, Deb. debm55 May 14 #95

May you always find and/or receive the love and energy you need LuvLoogie May 14 #85

Thank you my sweet friend, LuvLoogie. debm55 May 14 #92

Thank you my friend, LuvLoogie. I will send a prayer to you tonight debm55 May 14 #93

A lot to deal with! BeneteauBum May 14 #86

Thank you my friend for your kind words.BeneteauBum. debm55 May 14 #88

The thing that's important is that you HAVE been TexasBushwhacker May 14 #87

Yes, they flagged it was abnormal last summer.Instead of yearly tests I have been tested every six months. It threw me debm55 May 14 #90

Yes. I lost my mother to breast cancer TexasBushwhacker May 15 #111

I'm thinking about you, Deb55... Trueblue Texan May 14 #89

Thank you for your wish words my friend. Trueblue Texan. debm55 May 14 #91

The Pittsburgh hospitals are wonderful, gab13by13 May 14 #104

Thank you gab13by13. debm55 May 15 #117

You're up to the fight. You have plenty enough people in your corner. Push through. marble falls May 14 #105

Thank you for your kind words, marble falls. debm55 May 15 #116

Sending good vibes.. BlueWaveNeverEnd May 14 #107

Thank you my friend.❤️ debm55 May 15 #115

You will get through this DelMar dem May 14 #108

Yes, it is the waiting. Thank you DelMar dem. debm55 May 15 #114

Sending you my best wishes u4ic May 15 #109

Thank you very much, u4ic.❤️ debm55 May 15 #113

deb, True Dough May 15 #110

Thank you very much, True Dough❤️ debm55 May 15 #112

I'm sending good vibes malaise May 15 #123

Thank you very much, malaise. debm55 May 15 #124