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Tsiyu

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20. That sounds like a really good idea

Mon Nov 12, 2012, 03:52 AM

Nov 2012

Learn some new skills and develop your own personal recipe file.

As someone who has been married - more than once - and has raised kids, I say
enjoy this time you have alone to find out who you are. Don't let someone else - or partnership with someone else -
define who you are. Discover what it is you enjoy doing, what your true goals are.

Look at this as an opportunity to develop yourself, and when the right person shows up - WOO HOO - you are free to enjoy the opportunity.

Let us know how the cooking classes work out.

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How does one regain self-confidence after having it shattered? [View all] alarimer Nov 2012 OP

start believing in you.. HipChick Nov 2012 #1

It's strange because professionally I am in a good place finally. alarimer Nov 2012 #2

Find a good therapist. Just giving these problems respect nolabear Nov 2012 #3

that, and see if you can volunteer somewhere... Flaxbee Nov 2012 #6

I'm thinking about a cooking class actually. alarimer Nov 2012 #8

That sounds like a really good idea Tsiyu Nov 2012 #20

First I need to find a class. alarimer Nov 2012 #26

I'd recommend a pet if nothing else mythology Nov 2012 #4

I have a cat. alarimer Nov 2012 #9

why the need to get involved again, why not just go out and have fun without thinking about any comm loli phabay Nov 2012 #5

That's good advice alarimer Nov 2012 #10

We share the same libodem Nov 2012 #7

Exactly alarimer Nov 2012 #16

Nice post, Mitt. Bucky Nov 2012 #11

Yes, I probably have talked about it entirely too much this year. alarimer Nov 2012 #12

Try Yoga Joey Liberal Nov 2012 #13

Live. Wait Wut Nov 2012 #14

Thank you. alarimer Nov 2012 #15

I'm not quite sure how to express this but in my 62 years on this dot OffWithTheirHeads Nov 2012 #17

I'm learning alarimer Nov 2012 #21

Sucess. Do something you can suceed at. Even if it's just Skee-Ball. Taverner Nov 2012 #18

Briefly off topic: Skee Ball: one of the great inventions of humankind. Love it and wish byeya Nov 2012 #24

hugs backwoodsbob Nov 2012 #19

Thanks alarimer Nov 2012 #22

It sounds cliche but SimplyMarie Nov 2012 #23

I see myself in your OP. dawg Nov 2012 #25

Yes, you're right of course. alarimer Nov 2012 #27