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sprinkleeninow

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46. I have lent an ear...listened.

Mon Jun 29, 2026, 08:24 PM

15 hrs ago

I'm still grieving my girl pup immensely.

Moreso than grieving my husband.

I found out that it is not unheard of.

I pray for you and yours for comforting peace and consolation.

Also, for you to hear some day:

+"Well done, good and faithful servant!"+

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I don't know what to do. [View all] LuckyCharms 17 hrs ago OP

So sorry... regnaD kciN 17 hrs ago #1

You are not alone. We have all had devastating hurts and we can empathize with you. alwaysinasnit 17 hrs ago #2

This message was self-deleted by its author coprolite 13 hrs ago #68

I'm Very Sorry About This, LuckyCharms. That is a Lot to Go Through, Male, Female, Adult, or Child. The Roux Comes First 17 hrs ago #3

Dearest Lucky Niagara 17 hrs ago #4

Grief will always come out Easterncedar 17 hrs ago #5

I'm so sorry for your pain, Lucky Charms. But I am so glad that you've been part of my life erronis 17 hrs ago #6

The best thing about life is that it's short. Haggard Celine 17 hrs ago #7

Our pets are family surfered 17 hrs ago #8

All i have to offer you is a cyber 🫂 mwmisses4289 17 hrs ago #9

I hpoe you can keep him as pain free as mtairyguy 17 hrs ago #10

Gladly LuckyCharms, JMCKUSICK 17 hrs ago #11

In the words of Hunter S. Thompson... SergeStorms 16 hrs ago #12

I don't know any details on you, your dog, and your dog's health. RockCreek 16 hrs ago #13

We love you so much, LC. I wish I could do something to ease your pain. littlemissmartypants 16 hrs ago #14

We can hear your pain thru your words and as the others have said, we send our deepest sadness for you Deuxcents 16 hrs ago #15

Trauma Is Cumulative FrankTC 16 hrs ago #16

Grief is debilitating but don't try to man up Keepthesoulalive 16 hrs ago #17

I hear you. Silver Gaia 16 hrs ago #18

Lucky, you're a god man..I've seen it many times in your posts.. mountain grammy 16 hrs ago #19

I'm sorry to hear your sad news Marthe48 16 hrs ago #20

with the elder gen gone in my family , my middle sis and i feel empty AllaN01Bear 16 hrs ago #21

I am sorry you are experiencing this pain. I send love to you and your, good boy. ShazamIam 16 hrs ago #22

Prayers said for your good boy. hamsterjill 16 hrs ago #23

My Dad died in 2014. Eko 16 hrs ago #24

Your good boy is part of you, maybe even a big part of you FakeNoose 16 hrs ago #25

You go ahead and 'dump' away. OldBaldy1701E 16 hrs ago #26

In the same plane of existence... MiHale 16 hrs ago #27

Lucky, I am in your corner, all of us are. Prairie_Seagull 16 hrs ago #28

I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's always hard to lose a loved one, furry or not. chowder66 16 hrs ago #29

I HATE that our furbabies have such a short lifespan... buzzycrumbhunger 16 hrs ago #30

This part of part of our life sucks, LC. OAITW r.2.0 16 hrs ago #31

Oh sweet Lucky Unwind Your Mind 16 hrs ago #32

🥰 ♥️ 🥰 ♥️ 🥰 ♥️ a kennedy 16 hrs ago #33

Hugs to you. I hope sharing your pain and sorrow helps you. We all will help by listening and hugs. Srkdqltr 16 hrs ago #34

First, I prayed for you and your 'good boy'. Joinfortmill 15 hrs ago #35

I think you have this right. LuckyCharms 14 hrs ago #60

I understand. Very similar experiences and emotions. Very painful. Evolve Dammit 15 hrs ago #36

emotions need to be felt Kali 15 hrs ago #37

Holding you in my heart. You are NOT alone, many of us do understand. n/t TygrBright 15 hrs ago #38

I'm with you... S/V Loner 15 hrs ago #39

I'm so sorry. Trauma is hard to deal with Phoenix61 15 hrs ago #40

Please Google "can a dog's hind legs weaken from B 12 deficiency?" xuplate 15 hrs ago #41

You are not weak. It takes strength to let yourself feel and care for others the way you do. MLAA 15 hrs ago #42

Previous profession... SuzyandPuffpuff 15 hrs ago #43

Hang in there LC. NoMoreRepugs 15 hrs ago #44

You're not weak, Lucky. You're strong, and caring, and because you care, saying goodbye to loved highplainsdem 15 hrs ago #45

I have lent an ear...listened. sprinkleeninow 15 hrs ago #46

Hopefully by purging and expressing, you're healing yourself. SleeplessinSoCal 15 hrs ago #47

I feel all your pain and pray that The Universe gives you the strength to weather LoisB 15 hrs ago #48

Simple reply fxp1956 15 hrs ago #49

We have an obligation to the companion animals we have invited to share our lives. pat_k 14 hrs ago #50

Since the pandemic... LuckyCharms 14 hrs ago #51

My partner and I spent a long night "camped" on our living room floor with our K.D. on her last night. pat_k 14 hrs ago #61

My wife is sleeping on the couch tonight... LuckyCharms 13 hrs ago #65

May you all find connection and some peace tonight. pat_k 13 hrs ago #70

We lost 2 senior labs within days of each other a couple of years ago - TBF 14 hrs ago #52

My wonderful Lucky UpInArms 14 hrs ago #53

Sometimes... LuckyCharms 14 hrs ago #58

Loosing my 17 year old baby a year after my Dad BigmanPigman 14 hrs ago #54

I would like that information , Bigman... Trueblue Texan 11 hrs ago #77

Yes, I'll do that. BigmanPigman 1 hr ago #90

I hear ya.. Permanut 14 hrs ago #55

34 years for me... LuckyCharms 13 hrs ago #66

I'm so glad EuterpeThelo 6 hrs ago #85

I'm so sorry. I have no suggestions, just a sincere wish you find some relief Scrivener7 14 hrs ago #56

I'm so sorry for your pain annielion 14 hrs ago #57

I hear and see you Lifeafter70 14 hrs ago #59

Sending you my Faux pas 14 hrs ago #62

I'm so sorry. Knowing that life is HARD when people actually care about people and animals and life on earth doesn't Exp 14 hrs ago #63

I'm both sorry and I completely understand cate94 13 hrs ago #64

Keep on doing your best, amigo JoseBalow 13 hrs ago #67

Sorry to hear you are loosing another member of your family coprolite 13 hrs ago #69

My dear sweet LuckyCharms , I will continue to keep you in my rosary prayers. . Love, debm55 debm55 12 hrs ago #71

Life is by no means fair or easy. Take it easy on yourself because you have given it your all . waterwatcher123 12 hrs ago #72

You don't have to know what to do. Tanuki 12 hrs ago #73

Big hugs, and a shoulder to cry on for you, Lucky Bayard 12 hrs ago #74

Listen, LuckyCharms. yardwork 11 hrs ago #75

I am saying a prayer for you... Trueblue Texan 11 hrs ago #76

My heart goes out to you orangecrush 11 hrs ago #78

I don't really know you aside from your posts but.. BlueSpot 11 hrs ago #79

I feel the pain and love in your post slightlv 11 hrs ago #80

I'm ao sorry, Lucky Charms. HeartsCanHope 10 hrs ago #81

Just love him. Figarosmom 9 hrs ago #82

🙏 demosincebirth 8 hrs ago #83

I'd suggest Walkin' Wheels pet wheelchairs or something similar for him but it sounds like blue_jay 7 hrs ago #84

Trauma and reliving trauma Laurelin 3 hrs ago #86

Prayers going out NewLarry 2 hrs ago #87

Your blubbering is taking it like a good man TexLaProgressive 2 hrs ago #88

Dear, dear LuckyCharms Erda 1 hr ago #89

God bless you and your beloved pup. The Human Condition is a..... ColoringFool 22 min ago #91

(((hugs))) samnsara 15 min ago #92

Love you, Lucky. Harker 4 sec ago #93