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3catwoman3

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60. Ludwig, I said upthread that, in our family, we have chosen to call this most difficult...
Tue Jun 30, 2026, 09:15 PM
14 hrs ago

...decision "liberating the spirit."

I came up with the idea because it has a gentler feel to it than all the other usual terms. Put to sleep isn't accurate - we wish they were only sleeping. Euthanize sounds cold and clinical. Put down sounds harsh.

It helps a little.

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I cried the hardest when I had the vet dose Otto, I held him as he crossed, I truly understand your pain Shellback Squid 23 hrs ago #1
I'm so sorry. LuckyCharms 23 hrs ago #2
How beautiful he was. 3catwoman3 23 hrs ago #3
Thank you.. LuckyCharms 23 hrs ago #5
Awwwwww Lucky UpInArms 23 hrs ago #4
Oh my... LuckyCharms 23 hrs ago #8
she was a sheltie UpInArms 23 hrs ago #10
A special dog, with a special mama. LuckyCharms 23 hrs ago #12
In a quote from Gladiator- "I will see you again. But not yet, not yet" biophile 23 hrs ago #6
Here is what I said in my tribute to my beloved girl. OldBaldy1701E 3 hrs ago #71
What a pretty, I guess I should say handsome, guy. sinkingfeeling 23 hrs ago #7
Thank you for sharing him and his passage with us The Blue Flower 23 hrs ago #9
So sorry for your loss, LuckyCharms Wicked Blue 23 hrs ago #11
So sorry for your loss. gademocrat7 23 hrs ago #13
Sobbing tears, Lucky! hamsterjill 23 hrs ago #14
Don't cry, Jill! LuckyCharms 22 hrs ago #18
That's tough my good friend. Although we're... NNadir 23 hrs ago #15
I'm sorry, NNadir... LuckyCharms 23 hrs ago #16
My heart orangecrush 23 hrs ago #17
Oh my goodness he's a beautiful boy FakeNoose 22 hrs ago #19
What a pretty pup! mwmisses4289 22 hrs ago #20
Our thoughts are with you. The Wizard 22 hrs ago #21
Beautiful dog, Lucky. May the memories of Jona, be a blessing to you and your wife. debm55 22 hrs ago #22
How majestic, and he never lost his puppy eyes. I'm so sorry LuckyCharms, JMCKUSICK 22 hrs ago #23
I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork 22 hrs ago #24
It sucks to lose the people and pets that we love in life. cstanleytech 22 hrs ago #25
Even if they created a dog that lived longer BaronChocula 22 hrs ago #26
I held Duke, Peanut, My heart Alex the wonder dog and all of the cats as they walked to the Bridge irisblue 22 hrs ago #27
irisblue... LuckyCharms 22 hrs ago #31
Not my dog, I found that image on a dog photography site 6-7 yrs ago irisblue 20 hrs ago #50
Oh, Lucky Charms, I am so very sorry Grim Chieftain 22 hrs ago #28
I'm so sorry, Grim Chieftain... LuckyCharms 22 hrs ago #35
Thank you so much, friend Grim Chieftain 22 hrs ago #38
What a beautiful dog. LoisB 22 hrs ago #29
Jona was a beautiful dog with a sweet, loving face. greatauntoftriplets 22 hrs ago #30
I'm sorry your pup is gone, LC. LudwigPastorius 22 hrs ago #32
I felt that way too, Ludwig... LuckyCharms 22 hrs ago #37
Ludwig, I said upthread that, in our family, we have chosen to call this most difficult... 3catwoman3 14 hrs ago #60
Thank you, 3catwoman3, that's a comforting perspective. LudwigPastorius 11 hrs ago #62
Lady of the Beasts, please take Jona gently home in Your loving arms, niyad 22 hrs ago #33
It never gets easier. Bumbles 22 hrs ago #34
❤️‍🩹🌈 Figarosmom 22 hrs ago #36
Sending hugs, LC. I wish Jona could have had more years with you here, but you made the right decision, highplainsdem 22 hrs ago #39
Kona was beautiful! redwitch 22 hrs ago #40
So sorry Randomthought 22 hrs ago #41
Handsome dog zeusdogmom 22 hrs ago #42
Such a beautiful dog PatSeg 22 hrs ago #43
I'm so very sorry for your loss of Jona virgdem 21 hrs ago #44
I cried so hard when our dalmatian passed on. Years before him my cat passed away and I was heartbroken. TommieMommy 21 hrs ago #45
pets die sooner so we can get more pets. pansypoo53219 21 hrs ago #46
❣️ littlemissmartypants 21 hrs ago #47
Beautiful pup. SergeStorms 21 hrs ago #48
Wonderful tribute, thanks for letting us know. Permanut 21 hrs ago #49
I offer this pat_k 20 hrs ago #51
for you DBoon 20 hrs ago #52
I'm sorry for your loss Marthe48 20 hrs ago #53
... 2naSalit 20 hrs ago #54
He was the best boy. Eko 19 hrs ago #55
What a beautiful boy. Joinfortmill 17 hrs ago #56
she was lovely Skittles 16 hrs ago #57
Hopefully you will find equal joy in the future BeneteauBum 16 hrs ago #58
Awwwwwww... sweet pooch. calimary 16 hrs ago #59
I'm very sorry for your loss, Lucky JoseBalow 12 hrs ago #61
Jona is such a gorgeous, good boy! HeartsCanHope 11 hrs ago #63
Oh, what a handsome boy. So sorry, LC! Missed original post. electric_blue68 10 hrs ago #64
What a spectacular pup pioche4 10 hrs ago #65
What a spectacular pup! pioche4 10 hrs ago #66
Lucky i am so sorry for your loss. I think Jona is friends now with my kitty girls Gracie, Sophie and Snickers Trueblue1968 8 hrs ago #67
Now I'm crying all over again. BigmanPigman 8 hrs ago #68
What a beautiful, radiant boy! He glows. Silver Gaia 7 hrs ago #69
So sorry for your family's loss. Dear_Prudence 4 hrs ago #70
What a beautiful dog... hwmnbn 3 hrs ago #72
There is only so much you can do and you did it. Remember what you had and be proud to have given a great life. twodogsbarking 9 min ago #73
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