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JoseBalow

(9,927 posts)
61. I'm very sorry for your loss, Lucky
Tue Jun 30, 2026, 11:11 PM
8 hrs ago

My sweet girl of 15 years passed in a very similar way last August, and I still weep at her memory, or when I am reminded of the sadness of losing her in my arms that day. Your sweet memories of Jona touch me, and I weep with you.

I very recently endured another very deep and personal loss. It has reminded me how inescapable grief is, if we choose to give our love. Someone close to me shared an ancient poem with me, to help me find some comfort in my grief. I'd like to share it with you, in hopes that you too might find some comfort from it...

For Those Who Have Died, Eleh
Ezkerah - These We Remember


'Tis a fearful thing
To love
What death can touch.
To love, to hope, to dream,

And oh, to lose.
A thing for fools, this,
Love,
But a holy thing,
To love what death can touch.

For your life has lived in me;
Your laugh once lifted me;
Your word was a gift to me;

To remember this brings painful joy.

'Tis a human thing, love,
A holy thing,
To love What death can touch.

Judah Halevi or Emanuel of Rome; 12th Cent.


I feel your pain, brother. You are not alone.

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I cried the hardest when I had the vet dose Otto, I held him as he crossed, I truly understand your pain Shellback Squid 19 hrs ago #1
I'm so sorry. LuckyCharms 19 hrs ago #2
How beautiful he was. 3catwoman3 19 hrs ago #3
Thank you.. LuckyCharms 19 hrs ago #5
Awwwwww Lucky UpInArms 19 hrs ago #4
Oh my... LuckyCharms 19 hrs ago #8
she was a sheltie UpInArms 19 hrs ago #10
A special dog, with a special mama. LuckyCharms 19 hrs ago #12
In a quote from Gladiator- "I will see you again. But not yet, not yet" biophile 19 hrs ago #6
What a pretty, I guess I should say handsome, guy. sinkingfeeling 19 hrs ago #7
Thank you for sharing him and his passage with us The Blue Flower 19 hrs ago #9
So sorry for your loss, LuckyCharms Wicked Blue 19 hrs ago #11
So sorry for your loss. gademocrat7 19 hrs ago #13
Sobbing tears, Lucky! hamsterjill 19 hrs ago #14
Don't cry, Jill! LuckyCharms 18 hrs ago #18
That's tough my good friend. Although we're... NNadir 19 hrs ago #15
I'm sorry, NNadir... LuckyCharms 19 hrs ago #16
My heart orangecrush 18 hrs ago #17
Oh my goodness he's a beautiful boy FakeNoose 18 hrs ago #19
What a pretty pup! mwmisses4289 18 hrs ago #20
Our thoughts are with you. The Wizard 18 hrs ago #21
Beautiful dog, Lucky. May the memories of Jona, be a blessing to you and your wife. debm55 18 hrs ago #22
How majestic, and he never lost his puppy eyes. I'm so sorry LuckyCharms, JMCKUSICK 18 hrs ago #23
I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork 18 hrs ago #24
It sucks to lose the people and pets that we love in life. cstanleytech 18 hrs ago #25
Even if they created a dog that lived longer BaronChocula 18 hrs ago #26
I held Duke, Peanut, My heart Alex the wonder dog and all of the cats as they walked to the Bridge irisblue 18 hrs ago #27
irisblue... LuckyCharms 18 hrs ago #31
Not my dog, I found that image on a dog photography site 6-7 yrs ago irisblue 16 hrs ago #50
Oh, Lucky Charms, I am so very sorry Grim Chieftain 18 hrs ago #28
I'm so sorry, Grim Chieftain... LuckyCharms 18 hrs ago #35
Thank you so much, friend Grim Chieftain 18 hrs ago #38
What a beautiful dog. LoisB 18 hrs ago #29
Jona was a beautiful dog with a sweet, loving face. greatauntoftriplets 18 hrs ago #30
I'm sorry your pup is gone, LC. LudwigPastorius 18 hrs ago #32
I felt that way too, Ludwig... LuckyCharms 18 hrs ago #37
Ludwig, I said upthread that, in our family, we have chosen to call this most difficult... 3catwoman3 10 hrs ago #60
Thank you, 3catwoman3, that's a comforting perspective. LudwigPastorius 7 hrs ago #62
Lady of the Beasts, please take Jona gently home in Your loving arms, niyad 18 hrs ago #33
It never gets easier. Bumbles 18 hrs ago #34
❤️‍🩹🌈 Figarosmom 18 hrs ago #36
Sending hugs, LC. I wish Jona could have had more years with you here, but you made the right decision, highplainsdem 18 hrs ago #39
Kona was beautiful! redwitch 18 hrs ago #40
So sorry Randomthought 18 hrs ago #41
Handsome dog zeusdogmom 18 hrs ago #42
Such a beautiful dog PatSeg 17 hrs ago #43
I'm so very sorry for your loss of Jona virgdem 17 hrs ago #44
I cried so hard when our dalmatian passed on. Years before him my cat passed away and I was heartbroken. TommieMommy 17 hrs ago #45
pets die sooner so we can get more pets. pansypoo53219 17 hrs ago #46
❣️ littlemissmartypants 17 hrs ago #47
Beautiful pup. SergeStorms 17 hrs ago #48
Wonderful tribute, thanks for letting us know. Permanut 17 hrs ago #49
I offer this pat_k 16 hrs ago #51
for you DBoon 16 hrs ago #52
I'm sorry for your loss Marthe48 16 hrs ago #53
... 2naSalit 16 hrs ago #54
He was the best boy. Eko 15 hrs ago #55
What a beautiful boy. Joinfortmill 12 hrs ago #56
she was lovely Skittles 12 hrs ago #57
Hopefully you will find equal joy in the future BeneteauBum 12 hrs ago #58
Awwwwwww... sweet pooch. calimary 12 hrs ago #59
I'm very sorry for your loss, Lucky JoseBalow 8 hrs ago #61
Jona is such a gorgeous, good boy! HeartsCanHope 7 hrs ago #63
Oh, what a handsome boy. So sorry, LC! Missed original post. electric_blue68 6 hrs ago #64
What a spectacular pup pioche4 6 hrs ago #65
What a spectacular pup! pioche4 6 hrs ago #66
Lucky i am so sorry for your loss. I think Jona is friends now with my kitty girls Gracie, Sophie and Snickers Trueblue1968 4 hrs ago #67
Now I'm crying all over again. BigmanPigman 4 hrs ago #68
What a beautiful, radiant boy! He glows. Silver Gaia 3 hrs ago #69
So sorry for your family's loss. Dear_Prudence 42 min ago #70
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