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Emile

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Thu Jul 2, 2026, 06:13 PM 23 hrs ago

Post funeral eulogy. [View all]

Post funeral eulogy.

Yesterday was a tough day for me.
I went to the funeral of my best friend. 70 years of friendship is a long time. Lots of memories. Growing up, we lived one city block from each other. My earliest memory is sitting side by side in the first grade.

When we were six years old, he rode his bicycle to my house to show me he can ride without training wheels. He peddled his bike down our driveway, and out into the street right out in front of a car. The car hit him and threw him into the air. Another car going the other way ran over him and drugged his body for 30 yards or more. I witnessed the whole thing right in front of my little eyes. I ran out in the street, and his little mangled up body was still under the car. Blood everywhere, and I saw a bone sticking out of his leg. After a long hospital stay, he was sent home in a body cast for almost a year. This set him back one year in school from me, but over the years we always remained best of friends.

The funeral was yesterday, and I'm doing okay. Yesterday was tough seeing my old friend go. The preacher mentioned my name, and the story of my friend when he was six years old being ran over by two cars. The preacher was looking at me, and told everyone my friend should have died that day. But, it wasn't his time. He lived another 70 years, and touched everyone in this room. He went on, and on about meeting his wife, children, and grandchildren and how he had a full life.

My life continues, but I will miss him dearly. I still have all my memories. The most fondest memories are of fishing trips to Itaska County in Northern Minnesota, and as far north as Sioux Lookout, Ontario He always said to me, I love you.

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Post funeral eulogy. [View all] Emile 23 hrs ago OP
... alwaysinasnit 23 hrs ago #1
A very sweet story of your friendship ((💐)) Deuxcents 23 hrs ago #2
Thanks for sharing Botany 23 hrs ago #3
Gorgeous scene! calimary 20 hrs ago #24
It's hard sometimes to be thankful when the loss is so profound Easterncedar 23 hrs ago #4
I can imagine your pain malaise 22 hrs ago #5
You're lucky SuzyandPuffpuff 22 hrs ago #6
Condolences. Amazing long friendship. Onthefly 22 hrs ago #7
Sincere condolences, Emile gademocrat7 22 hrs ago #8
Thank you gademocrat7. Emile 10 hrs ago #34
You wrote about your friend with such care. democrank 22 hrs ago #9
Being friends for that long, sounds more like losing a brother. 70sEraVet 22 hrs ago #10
Hey, Emile, thank you for sharing this difficult time you're going through. calimary 22 hrs ago #11
Great suggestion. I can't sleep, so I just now had a thought that made me laugh. Emile 14 hrs ago #32
Now yer talkin'! calimary 14 hrs ago #33
Emile.. I am so sorry for your loss. mountain grammy 22 hrs ago #12
💙💙💙 godsentme 22 hrs ago #13
That is so wonderful. warmfeet 22 hrs ago #14
Nothing prepares us. Holding you in my heart, Emile. ❣️🫂 littlemissmartypants 21 hrs ago #15
Beautiful memories of a lifelong friendship Grim Chieftain 21 hrs ago #16
My deepest sympathy Emile. Fla Dem 21 hrs ago #17
What was your friend's name? BaronChocula 21 hrs ago #18
Thanks, I sent you his first name. Emile 21 hrs ago #20
Thank you for sharing that beautiful sentiment. oasis 21 hrs ago #19
What a wonderful tribute to your dearest friend. Tanuki 21 hrs ago #21
Sending you love and peace.💙 PittBlue 20 hrs ago #22
My deepest condolences for your loss Emile. What s KPN 20 hrs ago #23
Friendships that last that long are so rare. Laffy Kat 18 hrs ago #25
Delightful tribute.. Permanut 17 hrs ago #26
My deepest condolences on the loss of your friend. HeartsCanHope 17 hrs ago #27
I'm so sorry for the loss of your dearest friend choie 17 hrs ago #28
🫂 UpInArms 17 hrs ago #29
The hardest part of living long is the losses IbogaProject 16 hrs ago #30
Memories are a wonderful thing Figarosmom 15 hrs ago #31
I am very sorry for the loss of your dear friend, Emile. May the memories that you shared, be a blessing to you. He will debm55 8 hrs ago #35
I'm so sorry for your loss. Trueblue Texan 6 hrs ago #36
There was no funeral 70 years ago The Blue Flower 5 hrs ago #37
I am so sorry and thank you for the heartfelt post. 70 years is an amazingly long friendship. Evolve Dammit 59 min ago #38
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