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NYC_SKP

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15. We are similar then.

Reply to HipChick (Reply #14)

Wed Dec 19, 2012, 10:27 PM

Dec 2012

From the few people I've met that go through this, there seems to be a similar dynamic: one of the children take responsibility while the others, by and large, do not and to make matters worse are users.

It's very sad because of the extra work but worse, the loneliness of it.

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DU'ers who are primary caregivers for their parents.. [View all] HipChick Dec 2012 OP

Working with family isn't always easy. In_The_Wind Dec 2012 #1

My younger brother tries... HipChick Dec 2012 #2

I hear ya on the suck eggs part. In_The_Wind Dec 2012 #4

There are a number of ways they can and should help. Baitball Blogger Dec 2012 #3

just went through this, HipChick Maine-ah Dec 2012 #5

I'm in the same boat...no children, so I'm the one. DearHeart Dec 2012 #6

I did this once. Coyotl Dec 2012 #7

My sister lives closer to my Mom by 1200 miles. However, Mom has been in Assissted Living sinkingfeeling Dec 2012 #8

My wife and I moved to m innesota MineralMan Dec 2012 #9

Luckily I had to survive and had a sister caretaking UTUSN Dec 2012 #10

Get help from home hospice as soon as possible. pacalo Dec 2012 #11

My only sister is utterly useless, was actually in the way, and she left town. NYC_SKP Dec 2012 #12

Thats the only contact HipChick Dec 2012 #14

We are similar then. NYC_SKP Dec 2012 #15

Hey NYC_SKP. Scruffy Rumbler Dec 2012 #17

PS, sending good vibes and hugs. NYC_SKP Dec 2012 #13

Hey HipChick, Scruffy Rumbler Dec 2012 #16

My parents (and eventually my brother and I) AmyDeLune Dec 2012 #18