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seabeyond

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9. or we can discuss mens behavior on the net, talking to a 15 yr old girl. why? because they can
Sat Jan 7, 2012, 07:49 PM
Jan 2012

It’s depressingly predictable. When an instance of misogyny gets pointed out on the Internet, in a forum big enough to garner more than a couple dozen comments, you’re almost guaranteed to see some or all of these types of comments. It’s happening now. In case you haven’t heard, there was a recent incident on Reddit/ atheism, in which a 15-year-old girl posted a photo of herself holding a copy of Carl Sagan’s Demon-haunted World that her mother had given her for Christmas… and was almost immediately targeted with a barrage of sexualized, dehumanizing, increasingly violent and brutal comments. Including — TRIGGER WARNING! — “Well 15 is legal in many places, including my country, so I’ll only have to deal with abduction charges.” “Relax your anus, it hurts less that way.” “Blood is mother nature’s lubricant.” “Tears, natures lubricant.” “BITE THE PILLOW, IM GOIN’ IN DRY!” And including comments blaming the girl for posting a picture of herself in the first place.

That’s not what I’m saying. I’m saying that, when an instance of misogyny is being discussed, and you don’t disagree in the slightest that it really was misogyny? When an instance of misogyny is being discussed, and it would be obvious to anyone but a sociopathic hyena on meth that it really was misogyny? When — oh, just for example — a freaking 15-year-old girl posts a picture of herself with a book by Carl Sagan to an online atheist community, and gets targeted with a barrage of sexualized, dehumanizing, increasingly violent and brutal comments, including threats of blood-soaked anal rape?

Please, for the sweet love of Loki and all the gods in Valhalla, when someone points out how terrible and misogynistic that is, do not change the subject.

Please just say, “That is terrible. That is completely unacceptable. That is not how civilized human beings treat one another. Anyone who did that owes that girl the most groveling apology in their repertoire. If they don’t make an apology in the next six nanoseconds, they ought to be shunned. That sort of behavior is absolutely not to be tolerated.”

http://skepchick.org/2011/12/reddit-makes-me-hate-atheists/

http://skepchick.org/2011/12/reddit-makes-me-hate-atheists/

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"get your blood flowing" is a bit, well,... HopeHoops Jan 2012 #1
fuckin for real. little girls are getting me hot.... ones i see are lard ass. seabeyond Jan 2012 #4
Saying girls are pretty is sexist? amyrose2712 Jan 2012 #11
"Obese men can be subject to criticism and ridicule just as anyone else." noamnety Jan 2012 #21
"But when I'm talking about a group of nonprivileged people that I'm not part of dana_b Jan 2012 #22
Actually, mine is rather small (no, not THAT). HopeHoops Jan 2012 #24
yes, i get we were talking about little girls that are not developed yet. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #25
Oh good grief. What if the OP said "chicks"? Bad word choice, sure. HopeHoops Jan 2012 #26
girls, cute girls. yes. implies..... wait for it, here it comes.... seabeyond Jan 2012 #27
I still say you're reading too much into it. HopeHoops Jan 2012 #29
come on hope, excited forthe rest of day, blood flowing, girls seabeyond Jan 2012 #30
I took it as a young guy view of things. Sure, I like sex, but I'm not a "superior male". HopeHoops Jan 2012 #31
you raised three girls, i am raising two boys. seabeyond Jan 2012 #32
LOL! Love you too. We're on the same page. HopeHoops Jan 2012 #33
You have to be kidding me. HuckleB Jan 2012 #37
girls? noamnety Jan 2012 #2
little girls are hot... women are lard asses. welcome to the new du. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #5
I'm starting to think the goal here noamnety Jan 2012 #6
make the women feel uncomfortable and unwelcome. seabeyond Jan 2012 #7
The Male Gaze noamnety Jan 2012 #8
or we can discuss mens behavior on the net, talking to a 15 yr old girl. why? because they can seabeyond Jan 2012 #9
I don't see what he said comparable to those nasty comments Most of which were probably writing for amyrose2712 Jan 2012 #12
There appears to be a theme running through Lounge threads today... kentauros Jan 2012 #3
Post removed Post removed Jan 2012 #10
Post removed Post removed Jan 2012 #13
I don't think that you said anything wrong. amyrose2712 Jan 2012 #14
Of course, I am only going by this post. I don't know if amyrose2712 Jan 2012 #15
excited rest of the day, blood flowing, girls.... all in same sentence seabeyond Jan 2012 #16
but don't you pity him all the same?... Phentex Jan 2012 #18
ya, i pity him. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #20
I often disagree with people on these forums and often have my own point of view. Quartermass Jan 2012 #19
Well, women are adults cyberswede Jan 2012 #17
Alerted. cliffordu Jan 2012 #23
Nothing like a little misogyny in the morning. Odin2005 Jan 2012 #28
+1 HuckleB Jan 2012 #36
I don't know what to say. This post is so pathetic and yet so open and naive. PassingFair Jan 2012 #34
Seriously? HuckleB Jan 2012 #35
I'm locking this due to the contentiousness of the debate ("no drama"). pacalo Jan 2012 #38
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