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Jamaal510

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38. My main regret so far is being so shy in high school.

Thu Mar 7, 2013, 05:14 PM

Mar 2013

I'm still kind of a shy person now, but I was even more shy a few years ago. I totally regret waiting for girls to approach me instead of me being more aggressive and asking them out to the prom. I was told many times that I am a handsome guy and have a nice fashion sense, so I never thought that I would still have to be the one who makes the first move with girls. It was a very frustrating experience not only waiting for girls to approach me, but also seeing less attractive guys have bombshells.
Another thing I regret from my shyness is me losing contact with all of my high school friends. I never thought about asking any of my boys for their numbers so we could meet up on weekends and shoot hoop or meet some girls. Now I have nobody to hang out with, and nowhere to really be in my spare time.

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considering that one cannot change past reality, then you could use the term fantasy. backtoblue Mar 2013 #4

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that's a good one, what would you have written about? backtoblue Mar 2013 #5

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My main regret so far is being so shy in high school. Jamaal510 Mar 2013 #38

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