I need someone to interpret a few lines of a poem for me.

[Maraya1969]

3. OK an attempt

"And like to none that she has known

Of other women's other sons, --

The firm fruition of her need,

He shines anointed; and he blurs Her vision, till it seems indeed

A sacrilege to call him hers.


(OK so she feels fulfilled, (sexually and other ways?) by him but he "blurs Her vision........(I notice the Her is capitalized). He shines anointed:

(Definition of ANOINT
1
: to smear or rub with oil or an oily substance
2
a : to apply oil to as a sacred rite especially for consecration
b : to choose by or as if by divine election; also : to designate as if by a ritual anointment <critics anointed the author as the bright new talent> )

(She feels like he is so special, almost divine that she feels unworthy of such a God like creature.)

She fears a little for so much

Of what is best, and hardly dares

To think of him as one to touch

With aches, indignities, and cares;

(She feels as if he is too Godly or special that she doesn't want to burden him with her problems)

She sees him rather at the goal,"

(This I do not understand - it is not "as the goal" but "at the goal".) What is the goal?