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aikanae

(202 posts)
29. He needs to do it!
Mon Apr 29, 2013, 11:32 AM
Apr 2013

Your son probably knows what he needs. There are so many e-cigs on the market that it's hard to explain all the variations. What I can assure you is that there is no reason for a smoker to smoke cigarettes anymore. But what you son needs for quitting is highly individual and there can be some trial and error involved. Even with an e-cig, some can't "quit" right away. It's not just a matter of will power. E-cigs deliver nicotine, most of which is not asorbed. So there are still some withdrawl effects, it's just much less painful without giving up the psychological addiction and habit similar to smoking. But nicotine is only 1 of up to 10,000 chemicals found in tobacco and it's not the most addictive one (if we knew what they all were).

You might want to see if there's a store in your area that specializes in "vaping" products. That's where he'll get the most help. He can test some flavors, see what nicotine level he's at, get an idea of the vapor he prefers (throat hit, warm vape) etc. and choose what he is most comfortable using.

I was surprised. After a 30 year pack a day habit, when I went into a local vaping store, I was happy with a very low level of nicotine. I almost went with 0 nicotine. What I needed was copious amounts of vapor - the throat hit. I'm addicted to the habit of smoking. Everything made sense to me in that moment - why I had failed, over and over all those years. It had gotten so that I would never try again because I just couldn't handle the disappointment. Even after a cancer scare. Smokers are such outcasts in society anymore that it's hard not to take it personally. Some people can't just "quit" or we would have by now.

But for me, getting the right equipment to deliver a satisfying vape was critical. The little cig-look-a-likes were a joke. I needed a tank, with juice - and the further I stayed away from tobacco flavors worked best for me. Others are the opposite. Big batteries that lasted all day, rechargaeble and reliable, on and on. Without that, I was back to smoking.

It took less than a month to feel better. I didn't like being around cigarette smoke, didn't like the taste of them anymore, but I still need the vapor hit. Whatever works. The vapor is the same thing they use in fog machines at theaters or concerts, it's used in medical inhalors, i.v.'s, food; it's safe with no odor. No one has ever died from e-cigs.

I can't say that with commercial nicotine replacement therapy. Chantix is known for causing hundreds of deaths and none of the nrt's have a very good success rate 6 months later. They were zero help for me. I'm angry I was even prescribed Chantix with it's known risk for cardiac problems and depression. The medicine is worse than the disease. But it's a multi-billion dollar industry.

Anyway, your son needs to pick out what will work best for him. There are as many ways to customize this as there are smokers which is why I say there's little reason for anyone to continue smoking cigarettes anymore. But he's got to do it.

P.S. If he has trouble finding a local store, he should look at e-cigarette-forum.com. They have multiple local meets in every state now and he can get a look at what others use, advice on where they get supplies and most of all, support. There is a big difference with support coming from someone else who's faced the same challenges vs. someone (regardless of intentions) that hasn't had to - either a non-smoker or someone who could "just quit". BIG DIFFERENCE.

Just look at the messages here; "Just quit - I did". That's like hitting someone over the head with a baseball bat when they are already experiencing disappointment and failure from not being able to "just quit". It's not support. It's righteous and judgmental, even if it's well-meaning.

I had the same problem he had with a brand called Dragonfly (I think) Tobin S. Apr 2013 #1
Oh Tobin, thank you so much. blue neen Apr 2013 #2
I'll agree with this Ahpook Apr 2013 #26
I agree with Tobin. I've done it twice to real effect. 7wo7rees Apr 2013 #3
Snus. I had never even heard of that! blue neen Apr 2013 #6
Watch this. 7wo7rees Apr 2013 #7
I've graduated to tank-type e-cigs blogslut Apr 2013 #4
Thanks for the info. blue neen Apr 2013 #5
I second blogslut's endorsement of the eGo LadyHawkAZ Apr 2013 #12
We will definitely check this out. blue neen Apr 2013 #23
I have links if you need 'em LadyHawkAZ Apr 2013 #24
Been Using The EGO-T For 2 Years... KharmaTrain Apr 2013 #13
Congratulations! blue neen Apr 2013 #21
Logic Platinum seems to work for me. JeffHead Apr 2013 #8
I appreciate the suggestions. blue neen Apr 2013 #22
E-cigarettes are the best thing that's happened to me in years union_maid Apr 2013 #9
Thank you for the link. blue neen Apr 2013 #20
I quit twice cold turkey -- the first time in the early-80's with a 2 pack a day habit. MiddleFingerMom Apr 2013 #10
All due respect union_maid Apr 2013 #11
He says he really enjoys it, too. blue neen Apr 2013 #18
I'm glad you finally won the battle. blue neen Apr 2013 #19
Cold Turkey is the only way but you need moral back up not scorn olddots Apr 2013 #14
We definitely want to be there for the morale. blue neen Apr 2013 #17
Probably the easiest would be jamiea99 Apr 2013 #15
Thank you. blue neen Apr 2013 #16
I've been vaping for 3 years without a relapse. Waiting For Everyman Apr 2013 #25
Are any of them light weight and softer? I had one that was so heavy and hard I hated it. glinda Apr 2013 #27
Light weight and softer? jamiea99 Apr 2013 #28
This is what I have. Hard end and very heavy. Good hit though. glinda May 2013 #30
He needs to do it! aikanae Apr 2013 #29
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