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33. I am so sorry that you are hurting.

Reply to Lady Freedom Returns (Original post)

Sat Jul 13, 2013, 04:51 PM

Jul 2013

This is really, really, tough, I know. And the hurt will be around a while. But try to see it as a ticket to your freedom from a man who doesn't appreciate you.

Do this to help yourself get over him: Think of his least attractive qualities and put it together into a catch-phrase. Such as, Chad the "flabby, self-righteous, milquetoast" or whatever fits. You don't have to tell anyone else, just keep the nickname to yourself.

And then promise to be your own best friend and to take good care of yourself!

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He is getting rid of me after 10 years. [View all] Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 OP

Big hug from a friend Taverner Jul 2013 #1

I don't know what I am going to do now. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #3

Why would you need their forgiveness? Taverner Jul 2013 #4

THey told me he was going to hurt me in time. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #8

Hi, we don't know each other, but can you contact them and just say SwissTony Jul 2013 #22

ugh.. HipChick Jul 2013 #2

I don't know what to do now. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #14

I'm sorry HipChick Jul 2013 #18

I am very sorry to hear this. kwassa Jul 2013 #5

It hurts for him to say it. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #13

You need to get outside of his hearing, and call the local women's shelter NOW JanMichael Jul 2013 #6

Dave has the phone right now. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #11

I am confused - what is your relationship to this guy? hollysmom Jul 2013 #7

He has been my senifacant other for 10 years. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #9

why isn't he the one leaving to move in with the almighty Chad? Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2013 #10

Yes and no. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #12

I'm so sorry MrScorpio Jul 2013 #15

Oh, LFR... Aristus Jul 2013 #16

I don't know either. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #23

I have a very small suggestion for you. noamnety Jul 2013 #17

I agree. Too much personal information. femmocrat Jul 2013 #24

oh yeah, I remember that. Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2013 #28

First, he is blameshifting Lisa D Jul 2013 #19

That is rough. Denninmi Jul 2013 #20

I'm so sorry! You don't deserve being treated like that! In_The_Wind Jul 2013 #21

I used to have one of those bug deflector things on the hood of my 4x4 ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #25

Nobody can throw you away. rug Jul 2013 #26

... handmade34 Jul 2013 #27

Be careful - they may be trying to provoke you so they can call the cops R B Garr Jul 2013 #29

I think your right. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #32

before I got divorced hollysmom Jul 2013 #30

I am so very sorry! *hugs* We here in the Lounge know that you GreenPartyVoter Jul 2013 #31

I am so sorry that you are hurting. Quantess Jul 2013 #33

I have no good advice... Demo_Chris Jul 2013 #34

can you use a pay phone if you need to? grasswire Jul 2013 #35

Better! Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #37

I'm so, so sorry NuclearDem Jul 2013 #36

I'm very sorry, Broken_Hero Jul 2013 #38

I just keep remembering my plan. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #39

I`m sorry I`m not much help walkerbait41 Jul 2013 #40