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Incitatus

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24. Yes.

Reply to Xithras (Original post)

Tue Aug 6, 2013, 08:14 PM

Aug 2013

They are adults and it is their choice and perhaps mistake to make. You voiced your concerns. It was inappropriate for him to have sex with one of his daughters friends. The age difference in sex or couple's marriage, I couldn't care less.

IMO, you should be there for your friend.

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Would you stand for someone in a wedding you don't agree with? [View all] Xithras Aug 2013 OP

I would not do it. Sheldon Cooper Aug 2013 #1

I think he messed up, and owning up to his mistake Xyzse Aug 2013 #2

I'm sure this is a difficult decision for you. Lisa D Aug 2013 #3

I'd thought about that. Xithras Aug 2013 #4

Stand with/for him. elleng Aug 2013 #5

I agree with your friend. newcriminal Aug 2013 #6

Sounds like it's moved beyond traditional ethics at this point. hunter Aug 2013 #7

Nah, it's good advice Xithras Aug 2013 #11

I don't get how this happens either. hunter Aug 2013 #15

honesty is always the best policy alan_phillips Aug 2013 #8

IMHO.......... mrmpa Aug 2013 #9

There's not much question about the paternity Xithras Aug 2013 #13

Okay................... mrmpa Aug 2013 #23

Be there for him, not the wedding itself azurnoir Aug 2013 #10

Is he going to require the girl avebury Aug 2013 #12

They're still working the prenup thing out. Xithras Aug 2013 #14

Hopefully, he will demand a parternity test BEFORE avebury Aug 2013 #17

Thanks for the advice everyone. Xithras Aug 2013 #16

It sounds to me like he needs a good friend right now. femmocrat Aug 2013 #18

The wedding party is there to support their friends Spike89 Aug 2013 #19

I'd bite my tongue and do it, for a long-time friend like that. nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #20

The heart wants what the heart wants cliffordu Aug 2013 #21

Do it. Mistake or not, just be there to have his back NightWatcher Aug 2013 #22

Yes. Incitatus Aug 2013 #24

Hate to break it to you, Toots, HeiressofBickworth Aug 2013 #25

That's a little too harsh (and a little too certain) Bucky Aug 2013 #27

Absolutely Generic Brad Aug 2013 #26

I've had a friend marry a woman I didn't approve of. But it wasn't my marriage. Bucky Aug 2013 #28